How do I survive a wedding reception where I know I will be seated with people I don't like?

Question

Obviously I want things nice for the bride and groom.I don't want to make waves, but I don't want to be miserable either. I'm an aunt and I will be seated with the recently divorced parents, the ex MIL and some others.

Suggestions? Has this happened to you?

Answer 1

Just be polite and nice. Im currently sorting out seating arrangements for my wedding and it is very difficult to get everyone happy, i cant please everyone, to do that id have to have about 2 per a table!

Answer 2

Be as polite as you can during dinner and remember that after everyone has eaten, most people get up to dance, mingle, etc. So you won't be with them the whole evening.  

Answer 3

Be polite and engage with other people when you have the chance. It's only for a couple of hours anyway.

Answer 4

Most people are too happy at weddings to act out, so their usually on their best behavior unless their drunk.

Just relax and enjoy being there. Visiting other tables is a great idea.

Answer 5

Bring a iPod or Mp3

dont have to listen to anything

Answer 6

I think your plan is fine. Be polite to those you don't like and concentrate on visiting with others. Be unobtrusive and try to have a good time.

You might be surprised that everyone will be on their best behavior.

Answer 7

just deal with it, the wedding day is not about you.  even if you fake being nice it's only for a few hours.

Answer 8

I would phone the bride, (or mother-of-the-bride, or whoever is most responsible for planning the receptions) and tell her that you would prefer to sit somewhere else. She might rearrange the seating for you. If you don't feel comfortable doing that, then you'll just have to grin and bear it.

Answer 9

Have you considered a garlic sandwich for a pre-wedding snack?  That'll keep them at a distance.

Kidding!

Your idea of just getting through the dinner and speeches is very sensible.  Afterwards, stay as long as you like by visiting people you DO like at their tables.  People will pull up a chair for you if you find a spot you'd like to stay at for the rest of the evening.