How do I talk to my child about s*x?

Question

How do I talk to my child about s*x?

Answer 1

Easy let them talk to the guys who live in dumps because they cannot afford better for all the child support they pay.Visit the guys in jail next who are there because they didnt pay child support.

Then visit some teen mothers who dontr get to go out with their friends and date and  stuff because theyre rasing a baby.

then visit the welfare projects and D.S.S. and the local jails during visiting hrs. so they can see all the gilrs who guys have dumped them and they have to go on welfare to make it and those whose guys chose jail over being with them and the kid they made.

Also take them to meet some aids patients and talkto a few doctors about herpses and such.

Then let them read all the  questions of teens who have screwed up their lives with s*x before marriage on yahoo answers.

Answer 2

ill tell him/her straight up, the good and bad about having s*x. ill tell them that if feels good but there is consequences behind s*x. ill also explain to them about std and aids, and the consequences about possibility of being pregnant or getting someone pregnant. ill also talk to him/her about protecting themselves in the right way to prevent std, aids and being pregnant or getting somebody pregnant.

good luck

Answer 3

I plan on being straight forward with my daughter....no beating around the bush.  If you shelter them all you are doing is leading them down the path to destruction.  Tell the the stuff you did and the lessons you learned, if you are honest they can't call you a hypocrite.

Answer 4

Me & my mom have an extremely close relationship. i can talk to her about anything. she bought me books on s*x, puberty & all that stuff, a book on girl emergencies, a book on growing up, that way, i didn't have to ask her. at 16, she put me on birth control, she know's i'm sexually active now at 17, and knows i use protection. she always tells me to be careful, but the 'talk' wasn't exactly a talk, it was more of a here's information, use it wisely, i know you can handle yourself.

Answer 5

I had a very open relationship with my mum, and she made me feel like I could ask any questions. My mum bought me a book for teenagers, that gave questions and answers throughout the book, I found this great because I could find out all the answers without having to be embarrassed asking all the time.

Answer 6

start off with telling how a male and female reproductive organs works.

then go to how a babies made.

then tell what s*x it, oral s*x, anal s*x , hand jobs, and vaginal

take about stds (all of them) what they can do to both genders and if there is a cure or not.

then you talk about safe s*x and the risks of them and

make sure to answer all myths you know and question that come up.

use picture to help point out things for the body  reproductive parts, stds, what happens to a females body when it pregnant and other if needed.

oh and  teen s*x and the pressure they will face in middle and high school maybe college too.

coming froma 18 who wish her parent had talked to her about s*x

Answer 7

start when they are young and add age appropriate details as they grow. Don't wait for them to come and ask questions, YOU need to open the door to communicating about it so they will feel comfortable coming to you when they do have questions. Answer any questions openly and honestly with age appropriate details.

Talking about s*x isn't just about the s*x, it's about gender differences, puberty, changes the body and mind go through, etc...

Answer 8

u just do it and if u don't they WILL get miss information from friends and the web BTW there are really good books on how to talk to ur kids and have great approach techniques and Barnes and noble and borders good luck and don't get mad if they ask questions it doesn't mean their doing it just that their curious

Answer 9

Well first off you need to be very open and apporachable about this, and if your child is a girl please let the mom or a woman role modle do it! If it is as guy it is easier.

Answer 10

it depends on how old the child is

if the child is like 7, you should only explain that s*x is mommy and daddy (or parents ) show their deepest love and affection to eachother and that its how babies are made.  then answer any questions that may be asked but  dont give any unessary details.

if the child is 15, 16, 17.... tell them that their life as they know it could be dramatically changed it they choose to have s*x at their age becaue they could be come young parents or get a life threatening disease. then talk about birth control and protetection. also talk about the values that you believe in.

Answer 11

Well this is one of the awkward moments in a parents life i bet... its hard but one of those things that has to be done. Be open with your children if any questions come up about the subject take that as an opportunity to tell them what you feel about the subject. if you have an older child and are questioning them on their sexual activity, dont jump on them and make them feel bad about their choices, because then, the child WILL be hesitant to come to you for answers, and would feel embarrased to talk to you.

Answer 12

There are a lot of ways.  One way is to comment on a scene in a TV show that you are watching, like commenting that that girl or guy ought to be careful, because they're going to have a baby to take care of if they keep that up.   You can give them a book, and bring it up later when they've had some time to look through it.   You can talk about other people you have known, and the experiences that they had with s*x, such as a certain aunt in our family who was a teen mother.    You can explain what an Amber alert is when one comes on, and who was Amber.  You can comment on the news.  Britney Spears family is a good starting point, with her loss of custory, and her sister's pregnancy.   You can talk about your own experiences, such as when you met their mother.   There are lots of ways to talk about it, and you shouldn't only depend on one.  You should just start dropping some of the censorship that you are used to practicing and start allowing more adult topics into your conversation.   It doesn't have to be one long discussion.   It can help to just start talking more freely.   Over time, you will both get more comfortable, and it will be easier and feel more natural to have that more in depth conversation.

Answer 13

If you love your child you d be as real and true as possible and if your child doesnt want to hear it break out the panflips na just playin but sit him and or her done take them out for ice cream or somthin and just habe a real talk!!!!!!!! and how do i know this at being a young adult my mom is so reallll!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 14

Just don't say this

Dad- "You know it takes two people to make a baby, right"

the child-"Yes"

Dad-"Okay"

Answer 15

I am a 23 year old virgin. I am a daddy girl. My dad used to talk to me and making me read story about s*x. He took me to parks, we saw teenagers were kissing and making out. My dad told me, you are not allowed to do this because I will be so hurt. He does not like me to wear tight and revealing clothes. I am so happy to have a very thoughtful, caring, and loving daddy. I have never been heart-broken. I don't have an abortion. I don't have babies at young age. I go to school and earned my Master's at age 22.

TALK TO YOUR CHILD--she will appreciate it :)