How do I talk to my mom?

Question

Well the real question is how do I ask my mom to take me to the doctors because of my v****a or how do I ask my mom questions about my v****a or period cause I haven't gotten mine yet.

Btw I'm 14.

Answer 1

Your lucky not to get your period yet. I heard that girls that are smaller don't usually get their periods until 15 or 16. I think it'd be easier to talk to your mom. Maybe ask her when she first got her period.

Answer 2

well it norm depedns on when ur mom got hers so ask her,

and its okay if u didnt get yours yet some times people dont get it untill later when ur sixteen thats when i would start to worry.

Answer 3

Well just be honest with her she will want you to talk to her and not keep it all bottled up.

it is awkward at first but once u open the conversation it will be easy

i have had personal experience with this because i am in the same situation as i am 14 and havent got it yet ( virtual snap )

Dont worry it will come soon and everything will be fine

Hope it helped

Answer 4

If you haven't gotten your period and you aren't sexually active, there's no need to go the gynecologist. Just be patients, I had a good friend in high school that didn't get her period until she was 17. Believe it or not, your mom has gone through the same stuff so there's no need to be embarrassed about it. Just be open with her, and she'll be open with you.

Answer 5

Just ask her. The more you hesitate he harder it might be to get up the courage to. And you can be 14 with no period and be completely fine. I got mine when I was 12 and 1/2 but I knew other girls who didn't get their's until they were 15 or 16. It really depends on your own body. You should be able to talk to your mom about this stuff. I know it might be a little embarrassing, but just go for it. I'm sure she will be open with you and totally comfortable talking to you about it. If she's not (which would be a shame) then she will probably go ahead and make you an appointment to talk to a doctor about it all. Good luck!

Answer 6

Say "Mom, i haven't gotten my period yet and i'm kind of worried about 'down there' can i see a doctor about this?"  

Answer 7

hi...i have sons, but remember when i had to face this question with my mom.  it depends on the relationship you have with your mom and how she will handle knowing that you are curious for information.

if she is open with you and you can talk to her about most things (like when you needed a bra) then this should be easy enough to bring up with her.  as a mom, i will tell you that you should wait until she's not stressed like when she's doing chores, cooking or running errands in the car.  find a quiet moment when the 2 of you can relax and talk.

however, if you're having a foul odor, discharge, itching, burning, or any other symptoms that aren't healthy, you should explain to her right away that you need to see a doctor.  she may be upset, but the most important thing is getting you proper treatment and she should take you to the doctor first and ask questions later.

if you're not sick, explain to her that you're curious about what is going to happen to you when you get your period and that you'd like to talk to a doctor about it so you're ready and know what to expect when it does come.

follow the link i posted to see other opinions and experiences that could help answer your question - be sure to scroll down when you get to the page so you see the responses

good luck and stay healthy

-- kam

Answer 8

(I'm 12)

I didn't have to ask her, she came to me when I was ten.

I still haven't started, and I am worried a little.

Just ask her in the car, that way she won't get very distracted. My mom is easier to talk to in the car.

Answer 9

shes your mom, she has went through it before, she will be happy to help you, and feel good that you trust her enough to come to her about this.

Answer 10

Mom i want to go get a check up! Then ask the doctor then! Say mom i havent got my period and i just want to know some things about it! Im sure she'll understand because she has had a period too!

Answer 11

You simply ask her what you want to know. This is what Moms are for, to confide in and to seek advice. Don't forget, she has gone through exactly what you are going through now, so if anybody knows the answers, she does, so get her to one side and ask away.!

Answer 12

Start by asking your mom how old she was when she got her period for the first time. My daughter was 12 but I didn't get mine until 2 weeks before I turned 15. There is no magic age that you start. If you haven't started by the time you are 16 then go to the doctor. Don't rush it. I know that girls can't wait to get it and then when it comes you wish you were a boy for a few days of the month so you don't have to put up with the mess, the hassle, or the cramps.

Just talk to your mom. If she won't talk to you then maybe talk to an aunt or grandmother.

Good Luck.

Answer 13

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i think you could just ask her about it? i mean, almost every woman gets her period, so asking her is not such a bad idea. you could ask her to take you to a family dr and he/she could inform you about periodds and whatever you need to know....

awkward...moment....right now...

Answer 14

Talking about periods and things like that is probably one of the most easiest things you can ever talk to your mum about. Because your both female you can talk about it as much as you like without any embarassment. You never need to hold back on anything because she has experience about those things and she can help you the best because she knows you the best. Just go and ask her!  

Answer 15

shes your mom  you have to trust her

Answer 16

Really honey, just ask her.

She will LOVE that you have actually thought of actually talking to her about something of that importance, she might even treat you out for dinner. She know's about all this ''girly stuff''.

=)

Answer 17

my mom got her period when she was 16.No worries if you don't have ur period by the time you are 16 then you should start worrying.Tlk to ur mom and just go up 2 her and say...mom why haven't i started my period yet?K good luck!

Answer 18

it is possible to get your period later in life. don't worry. you're not missing out on anything. just tell your mom you would like to start doing annual check ups and ask her to take you to a GYN.