How do I tell a loved one they are over eating?

Question

I have a boyfriend and he over eats or is shall I say gluttonous and it really really bothers me. Last night he had 3 pork chops, thats ridiculous, no one needs that much. Or will eat a pint of ice cream in a sitting and it pisses me off because it shows a disgusting lack of self control, how do I ask him to stop?

Answer 1

well i would say just to go to them and tell them straight up. or also you can just say plz can u go on a deit because i think you need to control what you eat. last, if he keeps it up you can tell him that it isnt good for your heart. So yea. sometimes this work you can also say do this for me because i really care about you. i hope i have helped you. :)

Answer 2

your boyfriend is gluttonous, disgusting and pisses you off. maybe you need a new boyfriend...im sure he has mirrors in his house right? he doesnt need you to tell him he eats too much.

Answer 3

Forget about this relationship.  It's not going to work.  Maybe he is over-weight and eats too much, but your telling him so isn't going to be some eye-opening revelation.  He already knows he's over-weight and overeats.

The problem rests with you.  You want to change him and it isn't going to happen.  So take your pissy attitude and anger and move on.

Answer 4

when you love someone you except them no matter what..

don't make him feel like its not okay for him to be himself around you instead of saying your gross you eat to much how about a different approach like telling him you were thinking of you BOTH eating a little healthier like fruits and stuff  if hes going to start eating healthier its only fair you do too..and if he doesn't want to do that than he doesn't want to nothing you can really do but except him anyway...

Answer 5

"dude you eat way to much"

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start up a non-offensive conversation && see where it takes you.

Remember to be bold, and not afraid to tell him the truth. It's out of love.

Answer 6

Are you his girlfriend or his mother? Stop being so controlling. If you were worried about his health, that's one thing, but you're not.  

Answer 7

is he overweight?  if not, some guys just have a high metabolism.  Just because he eats more than you doesn't mean he is wrong.

Answer 8

tell him straight out. ask him why he eats so much. does he exercise? if he doesn't then you are better off finding out what it could do to him first and then show him what it can do. if he loves you then he will listen

Answer 9

pretty simple

you're a disgusting pig!

walk away and wait for him to be behind you then turn around and kick him in the nuts.

he'll stop eating (hopefully)