How do I tell her I want to move out?

Question

My mom and I haven't gotten along for a long time, my dad is completely out of the picture. My family hasn't been the same since we moved to a new state. I have a boyfriend and we are very serious about each other and feel that we're ready to move out together. But how do I explain to my mom that I'm not happy living here and that I want to move back home with him?

Answer 1

Ooh, I can see the state you are in. What I would do is tell youre Mom that you love him and if she loved you- she would understand.

Answer 2

Just try sitting down and talking to your mom, be honest about the way you feel.  If she doesn't understand, then simply tell her you are going anyway.  You are out of school so you are old enough to make these decisions for yourself, but I understand that you want your mom to be ok with it.  All I can advise is for you too talk to her.

Answer 3

You don't say how old you are, are you over 18?Can you and your boyfriend make it financially? Rent is expensive along with food. Also use protection for birth control. Too many young couples follow their hormones instead of using common sense. Then they have unwanted kids and get into more financial trouble that leads to a stressful relationship and end up resenting one another. If you still feel you have to leave and are afraid to talk to her perhaps write her a note tell her how you feel and leave real early.

If you are not 18 I recommend you and your Mom look in the phone book under Family Health clinic or Mental Health Clinic for counseling, if you she doesn't have medical insurance the clinic will go by a sliding fee scale.

Good luck!

Answer 4

Be mature about it and think of going to college. If you are 18 move back to where you lived then get married to him if you are that serious.

Dont just move in together. But you cant do anything till your 18.