How do I tell him...?

Question

There is this guy that I really wanna tell him how I feel. Im nineteen and I have never had a problem telling a guy that I liked him but this boy has thrown me for a loop. Me and him have been to h**l and back. He had a girlfriend. They broke up a few days ago and at first he seemed pretty heartbroken about it. Now, he seems fine. I really like him. Me and him even went out a few times a while back (before the girlfriend) But after all this time I still like him. I don't think he feels the same way. So how do I word it without sounding stupid and immature/lame?

Answer 1

Have an honest conversation with him. It shows courage and maturity. Plus I am sure it will relief him to know that he is loved. Don't try to build up a plan or something like that...that's lame. Simply open up to him.

Answer 2

Well, since he just broke up with his girlfriend, wait awhile, he may seem fine, but you never know. Don't wait too long though, someone else might snag him up.

When you do decide to tell him, just do, you have got to be straight forward with a guy.

Answer 3

If it's only been a few days wait because you don't want to be the rebound girl if you like him.  Everybody is different in the time they need to get over someone but usually a few days is way too soon.  wait until you're sure he's moved past her then talk to him in private and explain your  feelings.

Answer 4

"Give this people air!" - Arnold Schwarzenegger

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fr_qT9pi7...

Answer 5

write it to him. i find writing can be easier than face to face just in case you dont wanna see his reaction. and if it was so then let it be but if not then he wasnt worth your time anyway! hope that helps...

Answer 6

Hon the best advice anyone could give you is to just simply be yourself.  I know that may seem easier said then done but its absolutely the best thing for you to do.  If you like him and want something  more with him them tell him that.  Don't worry about sounding stupid.  How can something from the heart sound stupid?  Life is too short to let feelings go untold.  Grab him, tell him, then kiss the h**l out of him......Good luck!

Answer 7

Just walk up to him and say look, I like you.  

Answer 8

Know the feeling. I think you should let him know. if its been a few days since they broke up you should probably give it a little more time, at least a week or so. just mainly because of the fact that they just broke up and there's a possibility that they could get back together.  Then again, if he seems ok  go for it, i just hope he doesn't see you as a rebound girl or something. The fact that you went out with him a few times is good too, which means you and him already have some history. I would tell him how you feel. you don't wanna regret not saying anything. Plus be optimistic about it, even if he doesn't say yes, you can still be friends, because you know him and if you see him as a great guy, he could be just as great of a friend. If he agrees, then you have a hot date. you kinda win both ways. Just be straight forward, confidence is the key. If you don't believe in yourself no one else will. you know yourself and you know him, so whatever way it comes out, is ok, just as long as it comes out and you tell him how you feel. give it some time, but make it happen

Answer 9

You can talk to him, but unless you both live in bayou country, you

need to work on your diction...unless you are looking for a guest

spot on Jerry Springer (Jerry! Jerry! Jerry!)

Answer 10

ha ha ha ha ha

Answer 11

hmm , you should talk to him and face reality! ..

tell him what u feel , maybe he feels the same, u never know ,,

try! good luck and god bless u ..

milton ..

Answer 12

Your best bet would try to see if he likes you at all.. or as more then just a friend. I think that it would be sweet if you guys hung out... and described to him how you like him... tell him that you really like this guy who has (fill in eye color, hair color, other discriptions) but you want to know how to tell him that you like him. Tell him how you two are really close... and how you dont want him to be freeked out about it. Drop hints so he suspects that its him. And when you leave, tell him you hope this boy will call you tonight... or tell him that hes the one. idk, it may sound lame, but i always thought that it was really sweet that way. =]

Answer 13

wait until you think he felt better about the break up and then when you are about to ask then start off with a joke and he takes it well then ask  

Answer 14

well if you feel like you really like him a connetion then take a chance and tell him how you feel or send a signal how ever you do it but its better to take a chance then regert not doing it .