How do I tell my dad I'm having s*x?

Question

First off, I'm 20.

I'm having s*x with my boyfriend of over a year. He was my first.

I don't want to tell my dad, but for some reason my dad hates my boyfriend. He always warns me when we go out on dates or to my BF's house to be careful because he "might take advantage of me." Everything I mention we do my dad thinks it's my boyfriend trying to get me to have s*x with him, and that makes my dad hate him.

How can I tell my dad that I'm having s*x because I want to, I wasn't rushed (my BF waited a year), and to mind his business!

I don't want him to know but I also don't want him to keep on hating my boyfriend for the wrong reason.

Answer 1

you have to get him to realize this is life and every does it he did and and he cant keep u from doin it and tell him that your boy friend is special and also tell him to let u talk before he says any thing and that your getting older to an adult its gonna happin your not a little girl any more

Answer 2

If you don't really want him to know you're having s*x, then don't tell him.  If you don't want him to keep hating your boyfriend, tell him that YOU initiated sexual activity and YOU made a decision to be sexually active, and he can't hate your boyfriend for that.  Also tell him that you are practicing safe s*x.

Answer 3

Simple....DON"T TELL HIM.

No dad ever wants to know that his daughter is doing it. If you do tell him, your dad will only hate him more. Trust me on this!

Answer 4

Don't tell him he already knows. He is mad at your boyfriend and telling you he is trying to take advantage of you because that is what he did to all of his girlfriends. Your dad is going to hate all of your boyfriends forever.

Answer 5

So now your dad will hate him for the wright reason. Are you crazy??

Answer 6

some fathers remember their past

you are of age so tell him that you are more than able to decide for yourself weather you want to have s*x or not and it is none of his business