How do I tell my dad that I'm pregnant?

Question

I'll be eighteen in less than a year. He loves me more than anything and would never kick me out but I know he's going to be severely pissed, disappointed, and maybe even sad?

I'm more concerned about my boyfriend though..

I'll take advice from anyone but preferably someone who has been in the same boat.

Answer 1

um. your 18 he should know you are an adult and you need to take your responsibilty.

just maybe

1.say dad im pregnant

2.wait until you show and  he will probably get it

3.cook with baby corn baby vegetables.  haa

4.wait until the episode of secret life of the american teenager where she tell her family and do that

5.make your dad take you to the pregant docter(obgyn?)

and hope he catches on.

if your worried about your bf. then blame everything on you.

good luck

Answer 2

look I know it is a hard thing to do...and you don't want him to be dissapointed in you.

I would sit him down and tell him you need to have a very serious disscusion with him..tell him that you need him to be there for you and that this is really hard for you.

tell him you love him very much and that none of this is ment to hurt him, you just really need him to be supportive right now..

at this point he may start to catch on..

and tell him that he's gonna be a granddaddy.

I'm not going to lie to you, he will probably be upset and angry at you, but he will get over it! and he will love you no matter what!

If you are worried that he will be mad at your BF, you are right! he will be but he will get over that too. it might be a good idea to have this conversation with all 3 of you present, kinda to show your dad that your BF is going to be a pert of this and he is going to be a man and take responsibility...

hope some of this helps!

Answer 3

Just be honest and tell him. Tell him you know that you messed up, but the only thing you can do is make the best of the situation. He will probably be all of the things you said, but eventually he will come around. There's nothing you can do about it now anyway.

I got pregnant when I was 16.....my dad wanted to kill the guy. But now he loves his grandson and doesn't want to kill my now husband. You just need to  make it clear that it was the two of you, not just the bf, lol.

**Don't do the letter thing, this is something you need to tell him in person and talk to him as much as he wants/needs.

Answer 4

ive been in this boat, and the best way is to come straight out with it.  for your dad i handed him the test after telling him not to freak out, for my boyfriend we were living together, i told him i was sick, and not that kind of sick... he was so excited, then again i was 18 when i got pregnant, and he was 21- but being straight up is the best way- come out and say it...

Answer 5

you should be with your boyfriend when telling him. if he really has good intensions for you and your up coming baby don't you think so?

Answer 6

I think it's best just to come right out and tell him yourself.

Have your boyfriend to, that way he knows he'll be there for you & he's taking responsibility for his actions.

He will be mad for awhile, he may try to convince you to give it up for adoption, but don't do it if you want to keep the baby.

In the end, he will be supportive of you after he get used to the idea. Even if he doesn't want you to keep the baby, As soon as that baby is born, he will fall in love with it.

Good Luck.

:)

Answer 7

Probably by saying something along the lines of, "Dad, I'm pregnant."

Answer 8

So if he know's you have a bf then i presume he knows y'all have s*x right? You really just got to tell him you want to talk to him about something important and he's not to freak out and yell, so sit him down (both you and your boyfriend) and say something along the lines of "We're pregnant" or " We're having a baby" (we're meaning both of you are in for the long run)

Good luck sweets

Answer 9

If your dad is anything like me, the least of your worries should be whether or not your dad will be mad at him.  Your concern should be whether or not your boyfriend will live to see the birth of his child.

We live in an age of information.  There is no way that any young person does not know where babies come from and how they are made.  While it took the two of you to create this situation, someone has to pay and chances are your pop isnt going to go after you.

Good Luck