How do I tell my husband I'm pregnant (unplanned)?!?

Question

I miscalculated my cycle and we had unprotected s*x thinking it was a 'safe' time. Hmmm, not, because I am now five weeks pregnant. I found out on Monday and haven't told my husband yet...he went away on Monday for five days. He is really clear he doesn't want more kids (we have one). How should I break it to him???

Answer 1

well..if he really dont want anymore kids..then he really would have worn a condom!..just to make sure like.......

just tell straight, and then decide what your gonna do.

be honest with him...tell him how u feel about another baby also.........

:)

Answer 2

You are married and if he didn't want more kids he should have took more precautions and made sure you didn't get pregnant. If he loves you he will get over it and be happy.

Answer 3

Well just sit him down and tell him.  There's no other way around it.  

If  you two didn't want to take the chance then protection should have been used so he shouldn't be upset.  

Answer 4

well since he is away it might be a good time to think firstly is this something you want also, if you want to keep the baby then you wil just need to tell him your pregnant, i didnt want any more after my first now i am having number four,????? if you dont feel you want this baby then you have options while your only 5 weeks, there is the abortion pill you can get ru248, terminations, which are just options if its for the right person

Answer 5

If he is your Mr Right, & if he loves you, he will NOT be mad-angry & should be happy & supportive & excited that his child is going to have a brother or sister. If he wants to act wrong about it then you need to leave him A.S.A.P

''DONT'' get an abortion. just. . . please. . . . . . dont.

Answer 6

This child is a gift to you and if he loves you and wants to be with you for the rest of his life he will dig the idea of having another baby. I think whatever you do is going to be the right decision but no matter what you shouldn't get an abortion. I think abortion should only be for rare situations such as rape, puts the mother in danger, etc.

Answer 7

you should just tell him... its not like you can go back in time...im sure he will be fine.. congrads tho

Answer 8

I get really upset when I hear women saying - 'How do I tell him, he'll go mad!' as if it is their sole responsibility.

Honey, it took two of you to get pregnant.  Two of you should have been working out your 'safe' period (although there really is no such thing).

If he was that adamant about having no more kids why didn't he have a vasectomy?

Look, presumably he loves you and the child you already have.  You've alreasy discussed the possibility of an 'accident' occurring and you know that termination will not be the answer.

You sit him down over dinner and you tell him straight - 'Look I know this wasn't in OUR plans but it looks like WE  miscalculated and as it happens you're going to be a daddy again. I've had a bit of time to think about this and I'm really happy about it.  I hope you're going to be happy too.'

Give him a chance to adjust to the idea and I'm sure that he will eventually be thrilled.

And if you don't want more kids in the future, you need a more reliable method of contraception.

Best of luck and CONGRATULATIONS! (Its a blessing remember!!)