When I was in college, I got pregnant and gave the baby up for adoption. Years later, I got married and had two kids who are now 4 and 6 and absolutely delightful. My adopted-out son is now 18 and of age to search for me, if he wishes. I don't want his appearance on my doorstep to be the way my kids find out about his existence, nor do I want him to be shrouded in secrecy. If he does chose to find me, I want him to know that even though he is not in my life, he'll always be part of me. So...how do I go about letting my small kids know about him?
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