How do I tell my mom? help me please

Question

Please help me please, I had s*x w my friend a while ago, it just happened.... and he just told me that we should forget about it because it didnt reallly mean anything..., and now I think im pregnant. I took 3 test and 2 of the test said negative but one said positive, i just wanna tell my mom cuz i hate lying to her but im so scared. whats the best way or time to tell her? how can i?

im only 16, and hes 18, he doesnt know, no one does just me and god... please help me ='(

Answer 1

u should tell ure mother . omg my heart goes to u  i know wat ure feeling. but anyways he has to know so u can guys talk about this because wat if u are pregnant. talk to him and ure mother and its better to go to a doctor to see for sure if ure pregnant

Answer 2

was the first or last one positive time matters just tell her you think you might be preggers then go to a clinic to get tested

Answer 3

I think you should talk to her and tell her you messed up.

And now you need her.

Yea she will be mad but if your pregnant she needs to know.

Trust me I may be pregnant and I'm scared to. So if you need to talk to anyone I'm here even though you don't know.

I'm going though the same thing you are.

Go look at my questions. :)

please.

Answer 4

oh my freakin gosh!!! What do u think your supposed to do. Instead of thinking about what your supposed to do, you burden other ppl with your problems. You prolly only think from the waist down don't you? Seriously. What do u think your supposed to do. Jeez... A girl gets pregnant and she loses her brain.

Answer 5

Ok, firs of all, its not all your fault...you were both there! and it takes 2 to tango! But that's not even important anyways! I was 17 when i got pregnant, i was as terrified as you are to tell my mom, she had always trusted my and i thought i was going to let her down and disappoint her. But you just got to get it over with, she will be fine, she might be mad at first, but i promise you that the second she sees that little baby she going to forget all about it...Talk to the dad first and make sure you g to the doctor...and take care of that little one, cause you have been bleased!    

Answer 6

Your "friend" can't go to jail. The legal age of consent is 16, and he is only 2 years older than you. If he was 4 years older than you AND you were younger than 16, he could go to jail. Take another pregnancy test. And tell him first. Then tell your mom if you really are pregnant.

Answer 7

Oh babe,

Even though 2 test are neg one is a pos and that means its pos. you can have false negs but not false pos.

You need to tell your mum and from your comment it sounds like you have a good relationship with her as you dont want to lie to her. yes might be mad and disapointed but she will be greatful that you told her first. Mums always know the right thing to do.

Remember there are always options but the sooner you deel with it the better. All the best and Im sorry you are in such a bad situation.

Thinking of you

xoxox

Answer 8

You need to tell her so she can take you to a doctor. And your friend could possibly go to jail, since he is legally an adult, and you are not :)

Answer 9

Not 2 scare you buy if your mom gets mad he could go 2 jail but you really need 2 talk 2 him if he is your friend he should understand good luck

Answer 10

just tell your mom. it's the best thing to do. this way things can be handled the right way

Answer 11

talk with him... isn't ur fault... he didn't use a condom!!