A lot has happened in the last 2 years, including my mum being upset because I am now going to university so will no longer support her, she needs to do this herself. But instead of being happy for me, she got very angry (she is only in her early 40s) and I have never really done anything for myself because since 17 I worked to look after her and my siblings. She got so angry that she went around tarnishing my name to family, friends and just about anyone - All of it being lies. Initially people believed her until she started doing the same to my 14 year old sister including emotionally abusing her, then she was onto my dad, then her best friend and so on. I took her back in to help her look for work, etc and tried to forgive but she carries on with the gossip and says the most hurtful things, so much that if I were underage I would report her to social services. When she calls my dad and siblings and even grandma they now run away or pretend the lines are dead. We think she may be going mad but not sure how to tell her or her doctor without her getting even more angry. She is constantly causing people within the family to fight but now we all know what she's like. Is there a way I can call her doctor and ask him if she can get counselling or work with a psychiatrist? The only thing is that her doctor would obviously probably tell her about the family's concerns but we don't really want to hurt her feelings especially because we are not sure what's going on with her.
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