How do I tell my parents.?

Question

kay so I am only 15 and I'm pretty sure I'm pregnant. me and my boyfriend have been together for over two years. I have all the symptoms in all.. now this is where I need help. my dad is extremly over protetve over me and won't let me date so I've been sneaking around at night (yes I no bad idea) but how am I suppose to tell him I'm pregnant now? I need help please

Answer 1

no matter how you tell him is going to be pissed off... so get it over with and then you can move on..

Answer 2

i think your parents will be more angered at the deception than the conception.  In other words they has no idea that you werent even in the house and that will cause the most anger.

Do it sooner than later, you have to tell them, they will come around.  

Best of luck

Answer 3

sit your parents now and talk to them like an adult because if you chose to keep this baby you child life will come to an end and you adult life will begin.  

Answer 4

Sit down after the evening meal and tell him. What do you have to lose??? Cos he is going to find out somehow. Are you sure that your ready for a child???????????? Think about it.  

Answer 5

Well let me first start by saying when you believe that you are old enough to engage is adult acts such as s*x then you should also be old enough to take responsibility for your choices. I believe that you need to sit down with you parents and be honest with them. I mean its not going to go away and I think the longer you wait the madder they will be because you have hidden this from them. Be honest you were adult enough to get yourself into this place so be adult enough to be honest and step up and tell your parents.

Answer 6

Start talking now. The further you get into your pregnancy without telling them the harder it will be to make decisions.

You can't hide the ineitable, sooner or later they will start seeing your belly get bigger. The sooner you talk with them the better it will be for all.  

Answer 7

Regardless, if your dad is over protective or not, you will have to eventually tell him,... if you are; make sure you take a home pregnancy test first, and talk to your boyfriend about it also. I'm sure you and he are not ready to be parents. This may just be a time for your parents to prove to you what a "Parent" is and how much they love you. But it will have to be debated.

Answer 8

Are you crazy!!!

Have'nt you ever heard of protection.

If you act like a s**t you deserve what happens to you.

Answer 9

There is only one way to tell him is in a family meeting.

I can understand the family will be pretty shocked, pregnant at 15? Will your boyfriend still be around after you've had your child.

Its not the parents I would be worried about (as they'll always be there for you) is your boyfriend.

I hope he'll be loyal and stay with you.

Answer 10

well of course it ll be hard for him to bare in the beginning but he'll learn to deal with it. anyways , i think you should sit with him or even go together somewhere and tell him. you may start with : " dad i have a huge problem and i need you to be by my side... etc" tell him you dated for 2 years to let him know that it wasn't just a one night stand.

Hope everything will be okay.

All the best,

Anna

Answer 11

If you have a brother, sister, cousin, grandparent, or other family member that you are close to, it might be easier to tell them first and get them to assist you in confirming that you are pregnant. If this isn't an option, you are going to have to sit your dad down and tell him the truth.

However you go about it, you need to do it soon. The stress of worrying and wondering about it is worse than any reaction you might get from your dad. Chances are good that he will be angry and hurt at first, but once reality sets in for him, he'll help you any way he can. Don't wait any longer. Get started today.