How do I tell my partner that I miss him!?

Question

We have been through a lot and we fought so hard for this, that now that we finally are together it seems like everything is going downhill.

We used to meet every day and kiss, cuddle and everything a couple does. He is the most amazing kisser! This happened for 1,5 years and since then there has been lots of life changing decision that had to be made in order for us to be together. It has been hard, especially for him, but we were both sure that this is the life we wanted for each other.

Now that we are living together, have everything we want, things don't seem right. We hardly kiss now, and when we go out, it is always a struggle, because his ex doesn't know about us yet, and he wants to keep it for as long as possible to prevent hurting her. I know you might say that she should tell her etc., but I can see his point, and I totally agree with it. But before, we never used to worry about these things.

The point is, I miss his kisses, and I miss what we used to be, and I don't know how to bring all that back. I have spoken to him, but I don't seem to get a reasonable response out of him. This is killing me and I don't seem to find a way to overcome the change. PLEASE HELP ME!!!

Answer 1

leave this page on "accidentally on purpose" and when  your partner goes on  the comp he will read what you have wrote about him then maybe he will understand how you feel about him clearly you love him to bits and want to rekindle your feelings  

Answer 2

Plan A Romantic Night In With Him.

Cook A Fancy Dinner With Wine, Candles.

Then Watch A Romantic Movie & You Can Cuddle Up To Him

Then Try And See If He Wants To Take It A Notch Futher... If You Catch My Drift Lol.

And Yes, Tell Him That You Miss Him & Remind Him Of How Much You Love Him.

Talk About How A Sucessful Relationship Is A 2-Way Thing Like A Convo. You Can't Have One Without The Other!

Answer 3

Show him this question. He needs to let the cat out of the bag. He divorced her, the damage is already done. He needs to get on with his life with you or go back to her.

He needs counciling.

Answer 4

Ask him why he isn't happy and jumping for joy right now since he got what he wanted?? He isn't having second thoughts is he? I am always seriously suspicious when they are 'hiding the new relationship from the ex'.... it seems strange... He should be shouting it from the rooftops.

Answer 5

How about...

Looking at him and telling him....

I miss your kisses

I miss what we used to be

and i dont know how to bring it all back.

There is a good chance he feels the same.

You have to start somewhere... the truth is always a good starting point.

Answer 6

A year and a half and he's still hiding from his ex?? This guy has issues that go beyond kissing...

Answer 7

Just be honest and tell him.