How do you keep the numbers down for your guest list? We want a small, casual wedding in my parents' yard. We've narrowed it down to 8 friends (2 friends each plus their spouses), 10 family members on my side and 6 on his side. I feel guilty not inviting a lot of my friends, but I know we just want it small and intimate. Neither of us likes crowds, and he especially has really awful nerves with big groups. This is HIS day too, and I don't want it ruined because of that. How do I explain this to people? I know there are going to be hurt feelings.
(By the way - There's no issue with family because mine is tiny and his is so large that they already understand the reason for not being invited - if we invited them all, it would add over 50 people to the guest list.)
Thanks!
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