My sister is 11. She got raped several time for one day by our step-father (she got pregnant). My mom and our step-father (who is in jail now) lost custody on her and I got it (I'm 21, she lives with me now). That happened a few months ago until my sister told us about it. She is now pregnant in the end of 4th month (15th week, due date February 11). When she gives birth, we are keeping the baby.
I work and my sis is homeschooling. My job allows me to support my sister and a baby. What the problem is, I don't know how to treat her now. She is a kid and I don't know what does she need as a psychological help (from me), what to do with her. Should I punish her when being disobedient or should I let her do what she wants? Does she need special treatment because of the pregnancy and if yes, what exactly? How much freedom should I give her? I appreciate all answers!
P.S. We share a room, since my place is only a room, kitchen and bathroom. I'm not changing the kitchen into a sleeping room juts because my sis is not a boy. When the baby is born, we might move to a bigger place so the baby would have his/her own room.
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