How do I up my social life?

Question

I'm a pretty... big.. (fat) guy. I'm kinda shy and i'm awkward and don't no how to talk to people that great. I have friends, not a ton but more than a few, and i'm pretty respected. The problem is I need more of a social life. I want to be able to talk to girls without turning red, or ask someone to hang out with ease. I want to be charming, cool, and I want to have fun. I'm not comfortable with myself at all. Could someone, anyone give me tips on how to be more relaxed and comfortable, without looking like a wannabe?

Answer 1

Smoke some weed man and go out looking for chicks, give you a nice comfort level..j/j drugs are bad but that would help.

Best bet, act nice, dont be shy, youd be amazed how many girls are interested but we are guys, we have to make the first move, Im a shy person as well, but sooner or later you got to get over it and grow some balls and just DO!

Answer 2

try harder and tell yourself you could do it and that you are just casually saying hello to pp. reward yourself if you did do it. ^-^ and you could practice communicating with pp you feel comfortable with until you get the hang of it and it wouldn't feel so bad anymore~ Good luck and keep trying~

Answer 3

write to MTV - Made!

converse with them like you do with your guy friends and keep at it until you feel comfortable