How do I win back my best friend, when she tells me that she cant stand me anymore and shes tired of me.?

Question

Ok, so this is my story. I`ve had a best friend since my 9th grade year in high school. We have been close for that long, i mean sure we have had are fights but all friends do. But I`m so scared with that has happend.

Ok, so it all happened recently, i started getting feelings for her best friend but her best friend was also a good friend of mine. And i wanted to keep the feelings inside but it just kept eating away at me and i told her best friend that i liked her and her best friend said she liked me to. And things went good for a while, me and her were making plans on dating and eveything, but all we needed to do was to tell my best friend, well we did and she snapped she has not talked to me at all except for the fact that our friendship was over and all that, but god im hurting so bad. I just want to be her best friend again. Please, of any one has any adivce please tell me what i can do to get my best friend back.

Answer 1

you can't win her back...step off

Answer 2

why if you want her that much than you have to do something to elevate her hurt feelings..go on your knees and bag for forgiveness ..go out of your way to show your feelings and after you have done all that and still unable to get her back kick your own *** for being so stupid and get on with your life.

Answer 3

May be your were head over heel with her best friends that you didn't see the signs that your best friend might also have feelings for you. Have you ever consider to ask her if it was ok, if she is your best friend then there is no reason for you not wanting to tell her that you like her best friend.

The point is, you went behind her back and that would p**s me off too, after all you guys are supposed to be best friends, and best friends don't go behind each other back and do **** to hurt each other.

I agree with her actually, you made your choice now deal with it.