Ok my parents are paying for the majority of the wedding (They are only not paying for 2 things). They even paid for my gifts to my bridesmaids. So obviously we are putting them on the invitations. One of the things they didn't pay for was the photographer because my fiancé’s father and stepmother wanted to pay for something and they are also hosting the rehearsal dinner. The second thing is the videoographer, my fiancés mother offered to do that. However she never came through, went months without paying and we had no idea that was going on until my fiancé and I got a call from them saying if someone didn't start paying they wouldn't be working our wedding. So my fiancé and I are paying. His mom keeps saying she wants to do something, but never does finalize the offer with a payment. Finally we told her if she wanted to do anything she can pay us back for the videographer, this way if she doesn't pay she's not messing anyone else’s payments up (We're not counting on getting anything). Anyway the point is we want to include my fiancés father and stepmother on the invitation. I'd feel bad not including them since they've helped out. I know his mother would be upset if we didn't put her on the invitation also, but in the same respect it isn't fair to include her when other people are helping out. Not only monetarily, but also they've all helped me plan things and as much as his mom claims she wants to be involved she turns down every chance I give her. Like my fiancé and I went out to dinner with my parents his & dad and step mom to the place where we're having the reception. They got to see the hall and we all decided on a menu and booked everything together She and her husband were invited, and they were supposed to come but canceled last minute as usual... So I don't know if there is a proper way to word these invites so no one's feelings are hurt and the correct people get the credit they deserve.
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