How do J-girls show that they are attracted to you?

Question

I don’t want to generalize but many of the J-girls I’ve encountered don’t show directly that they are attracted to you. They show some subtle hints which confuse me so that I don’t know if they like me or not. I’m asian-american so I have a more western style of showing attraction. What are some general ways that I can tell that they like you?

Answer 1

I don't know about you but I too am Japanese-American and all the Japanese ladies stare at me especially when I come down to visit Japan every six months. That is the same if I am in the U.S. also, over there I get checked out as well. But I believe they are just like every other women in the world. Some will and some of them are not your cup of tea. But I have to agree with you, Japan has the most beautiful women in the world! But I am already taken and she is Japanese beauty!!! I am so d**n lucky!

Answer 2

Watch their eyes, they are the mirror of their sentiments.

Answer 3

Japanese are always very discreet especially women and higher educated ones.

They are very shy to disclose what their deep inside is to others easily and immediately.

They don't believe that poor English speaker can communicate with native English speakers well enough especially about very private matter.

They don't want to be considered them easy women  by somebody else who especially is very concerned.

Most of them intimate relationship even one night love is still very  special so that their attitude to men are always very indecisive.

One thing might happen on the situation you said is you are just conceited only and  they just hint you are not their type but  don't want to put you to shame.

You'd better not wait for their voluntary declaration but ask them how do they think of you first. They'll soon react back to you either way.