How do Mexican men feel about Marrying or being in a seroius realationship with American women??

Question

I think Mexican men & South east Asian men are Hot.I've been with my boyfriend for a year know & He is from Mexico.I've decided he is not the right man for me.But I want to be with another Mexican guy.I do like Mexican things(accept i don't really like Mexican food I refer Chinese).Is it a problem that I'm not Mexican? I know Carlos Santana married a black women & some other Mexican men married non Mexiacans as well.Serious Question. I'm not s****. or anything.I love it when Mexiacan men just came from the barbershop & have there moustache trimmed,stripped shirts & cologne.Nice Looking Mexican men are my weakness.

Answer 1

I lived in Mexico for a long time and I married a Mexican woman (that I met in Mexico), so maybe I can help. I think it depends a lot on what part of Mexico they are from. Just like how Southern American guys (and gals) are more traditional and conservative, Mexican guys that come from the Mexican boonies will be more close-minded and way more Macho than someone from a big city.

From a Mexican guys perspective, I don't think there is any beef being with an American girl. On the contrary, a lot of them think they've struck gold. Same with the Mexican girls liking American guys. When you're 1 in 12 Million with Green Eyes your chances go way up :P  

But seriously a lot of Mexicans Men do have the very traditional Male-Dominance thing going on, which is not necessarily bad but they take it to a different extreme than most Americans do and that could cause you some serious issues if you don't know the guy too well.

Lots of Mexicans think that Americans are crazy liberal and Mexicans are also way paranoid when it comes to cheating, so expect trust issues to be a real problem.

For instance my Mexican wife is always so shocked that I don't freak out if she talks to another guy or even if she has guy friends. She says a Mexican man would never go for that. So the impression I have is that the majority of Mexican men are very controlling and super crazy jealous.

But hey, whatever floats your boat!

Answer 2

who cares? there just people. i mean. mexians are hispanics.

and hispanic can date whoever they want.

just like irsh people and russican people and candians...

with asians and muslims they are very traditional hiertages. who marry their own kind.

it depends on the person.

i love mexican food. and chinese.

but yeah i never heard that mexicans were like chinease in the whole marriage concept that they like marrying their own kind... i mean Kat Von D (tattoo artist/ celebrity) is dating american guys.... i never heard of that. but intresting...

i mean why is he with you if this didn't cross his mind in the first place?

this shouldn't be a problem... why not talk to him about it?

Answer 3

you ae funny. If they have their papers and are working I am all for it. I think some Mexican men are handosme. I think if they are americanized you should have no problem. I am married to a man of a different culture, and we are happy

Answer 4

I can tell you from my experience(married to a mexican man) that mexican men love american women because we are so different. We have brown hair, blonde hair, red hair, green eyes, blue eyes, hazel eyes, brown eyes, different builds, etc....So they find american women very beautiful...but, they also believe that american women are more promiscuous. In mexico, if you have a boyfriend or girlfriend you don't have s*x until you either are married or are sure you are going to get married. That's just the way it is. The men are very dominant and can be very macho. If you are an independent woman, that won't sit well with a mexican man because they want the perfect biblical version of what a wife should be. Someone that cooks and cleans, and takes care of the children....while they can do as they please because they are men. So I think to marry a mexican man you need to be willing to compromise a lot...My husband was such a macho at first but we when I wouldn't let him boss me around completely then he finally let up on a lot of things. Just remember, you both have to be willing to accept each other's culture and to work with it if you want it to last in the end...

Answer 5

I am sure they will be happy to have a relationship.

Answer 6

IF YOU WANT A MEXICAN GUY, JUST MAKE SURE HE HAS MONEY AND FROM A GOOD FAMILLY AND LEARN SPANISH, THEY LIKE THEIR WOMAN TO FIT IN. THE FAMILY WILL DRILL YOU, THE SOCIATY IS MATRIAC, THE GUYS LISTEN TO MOM, SO WATCH OUT.

Answer 7

no its not a problem at all that your american, ive known TONS of friends that are mexican and married an american women. and its not rare at all i am  mexican and i think american women re attractive :)

Answer 8

Hi im Mexican and i really love the american womans.

You girls are so beautiful, and if you like the mexicans, please come to mexico, we need girls so inteligente like you, im just kidding.

We love american womans.

Best Wishes from Mexico and sorry for my bad english.

Answer 9

well im mexican( socal raised ), and no there really isnt a big deal who we marry, we are free to marry who we want. however most men ( no matter the race ) feel that white american women are s***s, at first i though it was just a mexican thing but no i have friends who are from India, europe, japan, korea, canada, other parts of the USA and black, and even whites agree with that. so just show you arent a s**t or make sure that if you have been sleeping around he doesnt really get to know that, cause then h**l mess around with you but marriage will be very difficult

Answer 10

You must have been a Mexican in another life sweety.

Mexican men cherish a respectable woman.

Marriage's last one h**l of a lot longer here.

Show you are not loose and he will die for you.

God love ya

Gringo

Answer 11

I like to flirt with mexican men saying sonsa