How do get over feeling shy about taking nude pictures and talking dirty for my husband?

Question

My husband has just recently showed interest in taking nude pictures of me with his cell phone. Last night he found out that he can take videos with his cell phone. He asked me to get nude, and touch myself at the same time talking dirty to him. This is while he was recording. I have never done anything like this before, so of course I felt silly. I want to do this stuff with him, but don't know how to act. Can someone give me some advice. HELP!!

Answer 1

my girlfriend and i went through this (both of us felt silly about one thing or another) but we found we just had to let go and do it more and more, and after a while it wasn't so silly. I personally advice not using a cell phone for this since they are not the most secure device out there, but have fun with it. Buy some s**y clothing to dress up in. Really set the roll and just let go. You'll find things exciting that you never knew you would.

Answer 2

in order for you to feel comfortable doing this, you need to be able to understand why he is doing this.  it may sound strange to you now, but with proper information given to  you,  you may be able to overcome this.  i read a book - to h**l with h**l - which explains sexual relationships within a marriage and encourages methods and times to do it.  it's been great for me and I'm glad i read it.  it's helped my s*x life tremendously and as a result, our overall relationship.  we're both glad i read it.  good luck.  barnes and noble dot com or amazon dot com.

Answer 3

dont do anything you dont feel comfortable with and make sure he isnt showing anyone the photos. get him to do it aswell because that would relax you  

Answer 4

Its all about keeping the relationship fresh and exciting. It obviously is something new and exciting for him that he has fantasized about, so you should do the same. What fantasy have you wanted to play out with your husband, but have been to shy to ask. I think now is the time to take that step and get in the mix of things, stir it up a little bit. Have fun

Answer 5

Apparently your husband thinks you are a very s**y hot wife and love taking pictures of you and videos.  You need to assist his needs by buying or using your toys while masturbating, tell him while looking straight in the camera how much you like the feeling of whatever toy your using and wish that it was his hard c**k, I think you get the picture here, just be the dirty little girl that he wants you to be and have fun.  Although you may want to warn him not to leave his camera out for others to see, or that may be an added turn on to know that he is sharing you with his buddies.  Either way, have fun sweetie.

Answer 6

have a BIG glass of wine or two and go for it!!!!

Answer 7

I think most people have hit on the answer but I will try to help.

First and most important RELAX.

Second go slowly and stay comfortable.

You will gt better as times go on.

After all, you can make more photos or videos.

It is not like you are on a time and budget restrictions.

Have fun. Be playful. Experiment.

May be research amateur videos on the internet.

NiF

Answer 8

If your not comfortable doing it then you should definetly let him know that this is knew to you maybe your a little uncomfortable and if he loves you he will understand.

But don't do anything that you don't want to.

good luck<3

Answer 9

Start slow, and find a pose you feel comfortable showing off, like wear a skirt and flash him your butt cheeks, and let him snap away, it can be fun. I love having my husband take pictures of me, and I take many of him, we don't share them with anyone just for ourselves, if you trust him why not.

Answer 10

How about he give you the phone and let you take nude pictures of him? Isn't turnabout fair play?

Get real, girl, this guy is a porno-freak. You deserve to be treated with more respect. What is he going to do with the pictures of you nude? Sell them?

Answer 11

Maybe you should ask the guys where he works.  I'm sure they've seen the pictures by now.

Answer 12

you cant be a very close married couple if you are shy around each other. my husband has loads of pics and videos of me playing with myself and i have ones of him on my phone. If you are married why would you be shy?