I really had this question in hand for a long time, but only now did I find it necessary to ask it already... The girl who I like ( I haven't really told her, but I guess she already knows) and I have just known each other for about a month or two... I've been able to help her out with her subjects since we're both in college. I think that is the best way to befriend her, because we are just both students and aside from that, there is really nothing else that I can offer but my time, respect, and concern. We've been talking and meeting up whenever she needed help (I help her with the subjects that I've already taken because I am a year higher than her) and she really shows an enthusiastic attitude towards me. What makes me wonder is that all of a sudden she just ignored me one day, and for about two days now, we pass by each other in our department and it seems as if she didn't see me. I'm sure I didn't do anything wrong? What could possibly be the reason behind her abrupt show of awkward attitude towards me, is she shy? Could it because she hasn't had any experience with handling such situations and the fact that she is only turning 17? I have been told by her close friend that she hasn't been in any relationship before. I hope you(especially the girls) could tell me if this is normal and what other things I should expect of this type of girl in the future so that i could handle it properly. It really has made me wondering, and all I can really do is to analyze her actions based on what what i could have possibly done or didn't do.. Please help me!!
One thing more, could it possible that she really doesn't like me and just appreciates me as the helpful "big bro" I've heard when she was asked by one of the friendly guards in our department if she(the girl) knows me, she hurriedly, replied "Yes but we're not close. He's not my type" without the guard asking her or provoking her so as to answer in that manner. I took this seriously, as if it was her way of breaking it to me gently, but then the next few days we still got to chat with each other (in a lively way) and we even got the chance to eat together in our cafeteria... It's as if nothing happened. After this is when her being "snobbish" enters... Back to zero. I said hi but she just went straight on walking to her class as if I were a ghost. This I'm sure couldn't possibly be a mood swing..
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