How do i appropriately apologize...

Question

heres what happened

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basically, long story short my bf and i were stupid and got caught doing it (though no clothes were removed, and you couldnt see anything...) at a wedding. we didnt think anyone could see, but as it turned out, they could. read the question for more info. my question here is, how the heck to i apologize to the bride and groom? now, the groom thought it was a riot and the bride also said not to worry about it, that it was funny. however, i still feel bad. i wouldnt be too angry but i also wouldnt be happy and feel i owe and apology. im not the greastest of friends with either, however my bf is good friends with the groom, theyre on the same baseball team. i was thinking of just writing them a little apology, and thank you for an invite in the same card and mailing it? what do i do, i feel bad...

Answer 1

I agree with the first answer. Let them know youre sorry but dont go on about it. Especially since they are not holding it against you. But I think they will appreciate a short apology.

Answer 2

send them a bottle of wine with a note that again, you are sorry and you hope that it didn't disrupt things too much!  Keep it simple and to the point!