How do i ask for more affection?? ?

Question

I try to hold his hand and he pulls away. and when i try to cuddle with him. he rolls away from me or pulls away. i dont understand why he does this. i dont get how he'll sleep with me fine. but when i try and be affectonate with him, he pulls away.

do i need to reassure him that im not going anywhere, and he can trust me, and its ok for him to open up?

im going out of my mind here. is that the best thing to say? when we 1st started dating he said he loves to cuddle. and he hasnt done it yet! we've been together almost 2 months.

its just weird. i dont get why he's doing this. im not going to dump him for it. but i need the affection and its weird not getting it.

Answer 1

Just tell him. Ask him why he never wants to hold hands or cuddle. Tell him how much you like it and appreciate it. Ask if he's uncomfortable with public displays of affection.  

Answer 2

Wow classic sign of change. Tell him straight forward. Let him know he's doing that. A real guy would care and try to comfort you not be a jerk and pull away. I had a gf at one time say she loved to cuddle and she was on me 24 7 then all at once it stopped. She cheated on me.  End of story.

Sorry but hold off on sleeping with him and let him start to feel lonely, do as he does become the one in control of the situation. If he get too much affection from you he may have his fill. Therefore if you end the effort and start showing affection to others you may see it come back

Answer 3

ok well some guys are just like tht some dont open up and dont like to express there feelings in public.  just tell him the type of relationships you want. good luck