How do i avoid hurting my ex?

Question

we broke up n remained friends.were pretty close until now..when i got engaged to another person..arranged marriage...i dont have any feelings for her but she does i guess...she calls me everyday n speaks n am trying to avoid her...did tel her that i lik some1 esle but still she insists that i need to speak to her til wedding...unable to be rude to her n shove her off..pls help guys

Answer 1

hey man don't think about ur past one as u have no feelings for her.  U r going to marry with someone else be honest for her atleast. Bcoz this relation is for whole life. And stop talking with her don't think whether this will hurt ur ex or not.

Answer 2

You are going into an arranged marriage. You need to give your future wife a chance. You are lucky to be in an arranged marriage where the women has feelings for you and wants to care about you and your needs.

You EX is an EX for a reason. You don't "owe" her anything but you do owe your future wife a lot.  

Answer 3

Do as she wishes b'coz this will be her last wish before your marriage & I think you should fulfil a person's last wish and also she is your ex., but not in future.

Answer 4

well look at it this way...If you don't offend your ex, you will probably be hurting your fiance. Who is more important? The girl you are going to marry and share your future with? Or the girl from the past who you won't be waking up next to every day? Hope this helps

Answer 5

Sever the relationship...a clean break is a good break.  You have new priorities now.  You need to let the ex go completely.  Be honest and upfront with her.  It's the only way!

Answer 6

hey buddy,

this one needs to be tacled tactfully. First of all Ex's can never be friends and if u are friends with them , this would call for a problem, jut lyk it did in ur case. I am sure you won't want to betray ur wanna be wife. Take a harsh step( u have to, else later on big problem will occur) and JUST STOP TALKING TO HER. I know it would be quite difficult but if you want to ruin your married life, then continue. Just think that a girl who cant forget you for a second and is not wasting a single moment to talk to you, thats why she says " let me talk tyill your marriage". Its all a big lie, she won't leave you ever if you don't take a harsh step  now.

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