How do i become bold and not care what people think i dont mean act that way i mean b that way?

Question

How do i become bold and not care what people think i dont mean act that way i mean b that way?

Answer 1

Becoming bold is not a one day job, u should slowly slowly should pick up this, first thing is you should speak to yourself and to your heart that u are not a shy guy, and keep on talking to yourself, and slowly slowly introduce this habit whenever u talk to others also,

Answer 2

Get really, really drunk and tell everyone who will listen what you think.   This is a quick fix, I know, and you will probably regret it in the morning.

Answer 3

spend time with yourself

Answer 4

You have to study and create well thought out opinions that are correct at least 97% of the time. You have to learn to do what is right even when no one is looking. When you don't know something, you say nothing and only look thoughtful. Hope this helps.

Answer 5

Being thin skinned is a not the natural state of humans, but it is taught.  The natural state is self preservation and taking care of ones needs including ones young, that said if you grow up in an environment of nurturing love forgiveness of ones faults, you tend to be more thick skinned because you have a healthy self-image. You need to focus on all of the good traits and qualities you have it's called the power of positive thinking.  Then when mean spirited people attack you with thoughtless words and deeds you will be better armed to protect yourself.  Age brings wisdom to some, but not all, so if you are dealing with hurtful adults you need to go with these thoughts------- It's THEIR problem and you won't make it YOURS!

Answer 6

you have to act first and then after a while you will become that person

Answer 7

when u find the answer u should write a book.

Answer 8

i don`t think you need to be bold not to care what people think. other peoples opinions are just that, opinions, but  your  opinion is the only one that matters. another point is,  that unless people have voiced that opinion of you, or you can read minds , how do you know what they  are thinking. believe you are the person you want to be and remind yourself every day. it`ll come :)

Answer 9

If you care what other people think then you will only lie to them and fool yourself.   Your concerned about other peoples opinions of you, they are only OPINIONS not fact, so why worry about what someone thinks of you when there is a good chance that they are wrong?  Seems like a waste of time and energy.  Its not what others think that's important, it is only what YOU think that's important.

Answer 10

you can't be something your not. however i found that i become more like that as i grew up. i'm 16 and have 100% more confidence than i did last year.

Answer 11

Behave the way you feel is right and then you won't have to care what people think because you will know that any criticism is wrong.  It is so hard to be hurt by what other people think. The blessing in getting older is that the older you get the less you do care what others think about you.  I know that is no solace for now.  But if you try being bold people may misinterpret that as aggressive or bossy.  Sometimes it seems like its a can't win world, doesn't it?  Be your best, serve yourself.