How do i become more matured?

Question

im 16 turnin 17 this year for some reason i dont think on my feet as much and everybody sees me as like a lil sister or somethin... i am smart but how do i become more matured or at least come off as being more matured than i am? does having s*x make you grow up quicker.. please a true answer.. no sugar coating =)) thnx so muchh

Answer 1

Being mature has nothing to do with age. Some people have the ability to turn around and see things in a different perspective. That is, realising that the world revolves around so much more than just yourself. Also, maturity is very subjective. Some people think it shows through the way you talk or act. But to me, it's how you think.

And no, having s*x will not make you grow up faster. Yes, you might have had s*x before your friends do, but is that the only thing you want? To be ahead in the game? Then that's immature thinking.

Answer 2

being more sensitive of other's welfare makes you more mature.. s*x doesnt help you become mature.. be more sensitive of others.. being responsible makes you more mature..  mature people tend to think of others first of what help they can give and they always think of how they can become a benefit to their parents and in the family... Think before you act. -  Mature people always weight things first before making decision... And I think being aware of your own self and thinking of how to become mature is already a sign that you are ready to become mature you just need guidance with it.! have a great life!

Answer 3

first of all s*x doesn't make anyone mature but indeed child does. tell your self think that you are now a growing girl what ever you are doing that you think it's immature try to stop your self from doing that at less i became mature that way.

Answer 4

Try to listen more than talk and to identify with the suffering of others. Thats a good start.

Answer 5

Hey...I have the same issue.Im 22 boy.But still im so immature.I think you are little early to think become mature.I cant tell u how to become mature.But i have to tell you s*x will not make u mature.I havent had s*x with anyone.But i have friends who have s*x with girls a lot.But they arent mature.Forget about s*x till you get married.

Search your question before you ask it.You will find a lot of question similar to yours.So there are a lot of people who have the same prob.So it might reduce your preasure.And keep trying.Which im doing currently.

Answer 6

s*x is not the ansewer. only if your ready for it. which is usally when your married. hmmmm.... reading more, and learning more about different things, paying attention more to the politics, and helping out, doing hard work for charitey, that sort of thing will help in being more mature ;)

Answer 7

s*x wont make you more mature..... who cares what other people think.... maturity is personal and its a growth issue that you will have to deal with...your time will come and you will blossom into a mature adult.....its your life and your time will come...just let it be

Answer 8

I tell you true, if you want to mature you must take as much time as it requires.  In the meantime live by moral rules, do not do harmful things to yourself nor others and get knowledge and wisdom.  s*x before marriage works against you.  When you know what is right don't do the other thing.  When you do wrong, admit it and go back to doing right.  Understand that all life is a gift from God.  You already are someone created by God.  Those who say you are not enough are out of line.  You get better at what you practice.