How do i break the news to my mom that i had s*x? Im only 14.?

Question

i want to tell her cuz she is the one i always come to. she will be disappointed and stuff but i need to tell her. I'm not preggo or anything and we used a condom. but the point is she'll be mad cuz im only 14. it was my choice and i'm glad i did it. but i need help how to break it to her. tell me how to phrase it.

here;s the story

i went over to my bf's house to hang-out. we were home alone & both parents knew that. we started to make-out and stuff and then he suddenly started undressing me and i went along. and then we went to his bedroom and had s*x.

HELP ME!

i need advice

dont tell me im a w***e either.

Answer 1

Well it depends on how you want to do it. If you want it quick go into a room with her and say 'I had s*x' and get the **** out.

If you want to say it to her face to face in a caring way, just sit her down and tell her.

You're not a w***e, hon, having s*x once doesn't make you a w***e.  

Answer 2

Tell her that you need to talk to her about something important.  Then approach her with a mature attitude and  tell her that you feel that it was your decision but that you just wanted her to know.  Be ready for the possibility of her freaking out, but she might be more understanding than you think.  

Answer 3

tell her u had safe s*x

and your not pregnant and follwo what ever she says

but if she says dont have s*x or break up or never see each ova again try to fight back ina nice way. u seem to like that guy