How do i clear the shyness when i speak to boys ?

Question

How do i clear the shyness when i speak to boys ?

Answer 1

gain confident by practicing at home..

start talking in front of the mirror.. through that u can gain confident...

Answer 2

first take off your bra.  If this doesnt work, take off your panties.  If your shyness hasnt cleared up by then call me and i will come over.

Answer 3

This is kinda hard on both parts, you should ask more question and talk more if hes shy, and when hes comfertable he'll be talking like crazy ... most guys are shy so girls that talk to the guy would really help them out!

Answer 4

hiyya

Make a commitment to walk away from shyness.

Note the situations where you feel shyness holding you back most strongly.

The next time you are in this situation, do something just a little bit more outgoing than you would normally do (smile, make eye contact, ask a question, etc.).

Relax and remember that mistakes help you learn.

Repeat steps 1-4 until you have reached your desired level of 'outgoingness.'

Tips:

As you know, this can be a really tough process. Don't give up.

Once you cycle through the steps a few times it gets easier and easier.

It takes a lot of practice, hard work, and guts to beat this thing.

you are nervous . try talking to boys  to get rid of you shyness!

you should get used to it

create opportunities for you to see each other. This might include secretly waiting in the hall or sitting near him/her at lunch.

Make eye contact and smile!

When you pass him/her in the hall, say 'Hi!'

Get to know some of his/her friends

If you have a class together, ask him/her a question about it.

Ask him/her about something you know s/he is interested in.

Ask if s/he wants to hang out sometime.

If you're like me, sending these signals can be scary. Start small and work your way up to the tougher steps.

Don't set yourself up to get hurt, make sure you haven't put your entire self-worth into whether or not s/he responds to your signals.

hope i helped you

good luck

Answer 5

Talking would be a start.  

Answer 6

say to urself over and over again its just a boy its just a boy in ur head:) im going to try to do that, beacuse i am the same superrr shy around them !

Answer 7

speak to shy boys, that will make you equal at least :)

Answer 8

you should see me then i got brite red and because i know im going red i go even redder lol.

just focus on something behind them when your talking to them or pretend your talking to your best mate.

Answer 9

pretend he has underwear on and pretend you r a bully and it works!

Answer 10

idk whys there even shyness

everyones just fake

just dont care

Answer 11

wear something that you can say "i look amazing" in, and allot of guys think its cute to be shy....but don't be too quiet sometimes when guys say "what?" you say nvm and sound kind of dumb  

Answer 12

just look at them like they're your friend.

it helps.

i also just act really friendly. it boosts your confidence.

good luck (Y)

Answer 13

plz come in my friendship, i'll finish ur shy towards boys, really i'm not joking

Answer 14

Chances are the boy your want to speak to is just as nervous as you are.  Here are a few tips to help deal with your shyness:

1. ACT confident -- even if you aren't.

2. If you fumble your words up, laugh, correct it, and forget it.

3. Shyness is fear of rejection.  Experience is your best cure. Practice!

Answer 15

pretend you're good looking.

Answer 16

think of thinks to talk about or ask b4 u approach

Answer 17

Fake confidence. It's s**y, no matter what you look like. If you're interested in a boy, go talk to him! There's a chance that nothing is going to happen if you don't initiate the conversation. You could start off with a mutual interest [like if you're at the library and he has a book that you're interested in or loved] and just chat with him. Start out small, and gradually get bolder as your confidence grows. I used to be very shy around guys as well, and now I have no problems! Good luck. :)

Answer 18

Practice, theres nothing to be shy off

Answer 19

be confident about yourself and you won't be as shy

Answer 20

In order to increase confidence, think of what you're going to say to a boy before you approach one.

Boys can be scary.. but they're really not that bad.

A lot of this anxiety will usually fade with age. You'll get used to talking to them, and before you know it, you'll be ordering them around and they'll say 'Yes Ma'am."

Lol. Not really.. but anyway.

Maybe work on your posture, too. Straighten your spine and keep your head up. This act alone will assist you with feeling better about yourself. Good posture inspires a more positive attitude.

Good luck, honey! :D

Answer 21

flirt i will tell u how

1.SHE CALLS YOU BY YOUR FULL NAME NOT JUST A NICK NAME.

2. SHE HITS YOU SOFTLY ON THE ARM AND LAUGHS WHEN YOU SAY SOMETHING FUNNY.

3. SHE FLIPS HER HAIR WHEN SHE'S TALKING TO YOU.

4. SHE TOUCHES YOUR ARM WHEN SHE TALKS TO YOU.

5.. SHE SAYS, "NO, I'M NOT TELLING YOU WHO I LIKE!" WITH A BIG SMILE ON HER FACE.

6. SHE ASKS YOU WHO YOU LIKE OR WHO YOU WOULD GO OUT WITH SEEMINGLY INTERESTED.

7. WHEN YOU GO TO THE MOVIES WITH A BUNCH OF YOUR FRIENDS AND SHE IS ALMOST ALWAYS NEXT TO YOU.

8. SHE CRITICIZES YOU ON A GIRL YOU LIKE.

9. YOU CATCH HER STARING AT YOU.

10. SHE PLAYS WITH YOUR HAIR OR TRIES TO PUT MAKE UP ON YOU.

11. HER FRIENDS OUTSIDE OF SCHOOL AND IN SCHOOL KNOW ABOUT YOU, AND SAYS SHE TALKS ABOUT YOU A LOT.

12. SHE KNOWS YOUR PHONE NUMBER AND ADDRESS.

13. SHE WILL TRY AND TALK, AND SPEND TIME WITH YOU AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE