How do i continue dancing with a girl(grinding) at a teen club/school dance

Question

Ok so i went on a cruise 2 weeks ago and it was my first time dancing with a girl(grinding =D) and i am 17 years old.. I'll give you an example of what i did with 1 girl.. So what i did was.i went up to the girl and said "hey wanna dance" she said yes. I danced for 2 songs and then at the 3rd song. she said "Do you mind if i get something to drink, its hot in here" i said sure. then she came back 15 minutes later and like i was wondering. How would i introduce my self to a girl like that and do i need to ask her to dance again, or could i just go behind her and grab her hips and keep grinding. Like.. After the 1st song , their is a 5 second break till the next sond plays. Is that when i say "hey, whats your name" "im mike" then i ask to ask her age? what type of questions are good for introductions and stuff. Like yea.. i want to get a girlfriend.. but i do not really know how to approach them.. Do you guys know what im saying. Could i please get some help. im just a little depressed, that i will never find a good girl for me =[ .

Answer 1

I totally agree with keomaxiv but let me throw in some additonal advice. If you want to dance with a girl then just go up to her and ask. Since you're asking a teenage girl to dance, most likely she'll end up grinding on you. You made the right approach though by asking and I'll give you kudos for that. Other guys will be such perverts and just get behind the girl without the girl knowing and start grinding on them. That just makes them look like animals fighting over a piece of meat and chances are you'll creep her out if you do that so whatever you do, don't go up to a girl from behind and start grinding on her. If you ask a girl to dance then it will make you look like a total gentlemen.  And while she's grinding on you, try not to touch her beacuse you don't want her to think you're a pervert. Just stand there and enjoy it and if you have to hold onto something try holding onto your own hips. If you really want girls to get a good impression of you try to carry a flower (it can be more than one) in your pocket and give it to her once she's done dancing with you. Obviously a lot of girls like flowers and she'll probably never forget you if you pull that stunt.

Answer 2

First of all a GOOD GIRL will not grind with you so if you are wanting to meet someone you can always make small talk while dancing but never when you are grinding because it would be too ackward.  Ask her to dance when there is a slow song on then you would be closer to her face and be able to ask her what her name is then that starts the small talk.  After the song is over ask her if she wants to get some air and walk outside so that you guys can start to get to know each other without all the loud music.