How do i convince my parents to let me go to his house?!

Question

okay so me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 weeks now and he invited me over to his house just to hang out.. i asked my mom to drop me off at his house and she said no because she says im too young and she doesnt want anything to "happen" when i'm with him. AND she doesnt want us to be alone.

[[im 15 btw..]]

WELL! nothing will happen if you know what i mean. we just want to hang out. and i've told her that. i even like promised her i wouldnt do "anything". and she still wont let me. and it sucks because i just want to hang out with him. just be WITH him and she wont let me.

WHAT CAN I SAY?!

Answer 1

You have a smart mom who loves you and is just looking out for you.  If his parents are not going to be there then ask him to hang out at your house.  

Answer 2

You may mean will when you say nothing will happen. If you are alone with him at his house unsupervised at 15yrs old. Believe me even with all the best of good intentions things can get out of hand real quick and before you know what happened things happen. Boys and Girls at that age should not be alone unsupervised in a home, his or her house. If his mother or father were home that might make a deference.Your mother is only trying to look out for your best interest and what is best for you. Even if nothing happened people see you there with him alone they would start talking and say thing did even thought they did not know. People are just that way so she is trying to protect your reputation from being damaged. I hope you can understand where she is coming from and why she will not let you.  

Answer 3

invite him to your house while your mom is there and after a while she will trust you guys

Answer 4

Nothing, you got to respect your parent, because it's not that she trusts you, but she doesn't know your boyfriend and can't trust him. There is a chance of you being able to go there if you guys decided to have your parents talk to each other, and she knows a parent will be at the household.

Answer 5

I'm 15 too, this is no new story to me, so I know exactly what you're talking about. Well my mom would only allow me to go over to a girls house if she knows the girls parents are there. If worst comes to worst, tell your mom to call your boyfriend's parents to reassure her that nothing will happen. If you don't want your mom to talk to his parents, invite him to your house. In time, your mom will start to trust your boyfriend and allow you to go over to his house. I'd suggest the 2nd option, because it's worked for me.

Answer 6

have HIM come over ta yer house first, ta meet her make her feel more comfertable around him nd let her kno yer responsible. then give her a plan like yer going over ta his house for this long ill check in at these times nd do it nd she'll trust u alot more after ! :)

Answer 7

Just tell her you're going to be hanging out with his brothers/sisters and parents and having a family night and they invited you.

That's the lie I always used to use. But things did happen when I went to his house, so I'm not really a good role model.