How do i convince myself that i'm not inlove with him?

Question

well, i know i'm not inlove with him, but my mind is convincing me that i am inlove with him.

my heart doesn't feel it, and I KNOW that i'm not inlove YET i am still falling for the tricks my mind is playing.

i love someone else and i know it because i feel it.

now, i want to stop what my mind is doing to me because it's driving me crazy, what should i do?

i can't even think about it, i'm extremely confused.

i re-posted this because i need more answers. :]

Answer 1

convince yourself that you are in love with me

Answer 2

try to remember this..... Five guys later you will be asking yourself why you even bothered with that guy you dated a long time ago.

Forget him and start look for other people to date, OR don't even date.  hang out with friends and have fun, stay away from the guy.

Answer 3

if you know you aren't in love with him, then you're not.  the guy you think you love may be giving you something your lover does not.  do not confuse NEED with LOVE -- they are on totally different planes.

good luck!

Answer 4

i dont know sorry that sonds like me...... ~xoxo ally*

Answer 5

I don't know if this answers your question...but....

When i was 14 I met the love of my life. when we were 15 he told me he loved me, and I told him not to say it, even though I wanted to say it back. I waited for three more months pondering if I really loved him. I finally told him I did. We broke up off and on and dated other people. No one ever really did the same thing that he did for me. At 17, I had another bf that told me he loved me, and I told him not to say it. At that point, I figured out that I still was in love with my first love.

Love will make you do tricky things!

I tried so hard not to love my first love, and for years it didn't work! So thats how I knew it was love. Maybe you need to do something like that and maybe you really have alot of time ahead of you to learn what Love really is!

Me and my first love are together to this day and we are 20 now. It took us awhile to say we loved eachother, and I'll tell ya, when you are older, LOVING someone has alot more to it than it does when your young...LIVE IT UP!

Answer 6

involveD, don't forget the D.  Well if you like him then go for him and if you KNOW you don't then just think of him as a friend.

And try to make more sense!