How do i dance with a girl?

Question

Okay so there was this school dance coming before, and there was this girl that i really liked and i was going to go up to her and say "Hey, u want to dance? but my mind shifted and conscious was telling me "Dude, why are you asking this girl? She wouldn't dance with you at all" My mind shifts into different types. Whenever i try to dance with a girl its hard, and i can't like speak to them much. I hang out with the boys a lot and i never went out with girls much, because im afraid that they start up a rumor or something about me and then i leave. any suggestions?

Answer 1

Girls love to dance with men who know how to dance.  They want to be led.

Get yourself up and be a man.  Find a girl that you want to dance with and just go ask her.  She may be shy at first, but if you cowboy up she will dance with you.

Don't do a fast dance at first.  Do a slow dance.  Hold her. Feel her breath .  Hold her and let her think that you are the most magnificent man she has ever held onto.

You must not be afraid of rumors.  Unless the story is how good a dancer you are.

You are a man.  Do not be afraid.  Trust in the beauty and softness of women.

Go for it!

Answer 2

lol wut?

Answer 3

Be cofident in yourself, (this sounds like a mom answer but:) be yourself. Women love men w/ cofidence and individuality. kiss her hand slowly (not too long or slow, like a peck!), then ask may I have this dance? If she refuses (she's a dumass), go to the next girl and if she says yes ;) take her to the dance floor and place one hands connected w/ hers and the other gently on her hip (NOT butt!!).And dance slowly to a slow song, (girls love that!!!) Wisper  in her ear she's pretty, (even if the girl next to her was cuter) and  compliment her outfit. Even if it's wack do it. ask her what she's into after the dance is over walk her to her parent's car, home or whatever(ask her first!!!), what music she likes, what was her favorite/funniest moment of the dance, tell her a light joke (not about someone getting hurt, not about something negative) or a love poem  here's a good one: http://www.buzzle.com/articles/just-us.h... she'll melt!!!! Memorize it it's even better!!!! Ask her if she had a good time tonight. And if you play your cards right you might go on a date instead of a school dance!!!! ; )

Answer 4

Same problem, but not the dance one ^_^

Well, if you got friends that can talk easily with girl, you should ask him to accompany you to ask that girl you want to dance with. If he mind to help you, then you got no problem again by talking with her. Since there is a friend of you that easily talk with girl. You can ask him to talk with that girl, but you must stay on his side and TRY to speak with her. At least try, if you can't then allow your friend to talk with her that you want to dance with her. Hope that helps...

(sorry for bad grammar, English isn't my first language)

Answer 5

go behind her. bend your knees up and down to the beat. =]

Answer 6

You worry too much, it is like bungee jumping the first step is scary but the trip is worthwhile. Just ask them and make sure you can ask questions and listen really well. The success in dancing is to at least get to talk to a girl and find out more about her doing something she enjoys.