How do i deal with a difficult roomate?

Question

1. her mom hates me

2. i think she has been using my stuff ( suddenly, she has bought the same body wash and toothpaste as me), not to mention my plastic bowls and silverware has drastically reduced

3. She doesn't clean up after herself. ( she leaves rings of blood on the toliet from her aunt flo, she throws pads in the toliet without wrapping them up

4. her boyfriend practically lives with us. ( half the time i see him he is shirtless with just a towel on...sometimes a robe.

5. my comb is missing.........

6. she is very loud in the morning and always wakes me up

7. Her boyfriend does weed in our room

8. HOWEVER, i have a rat, and i am not supposed to. i know she hates it.

how do i deal with this difficult situation?

Answer 1

get a new roommate - that's quite a list

Answer 2

1. talk to her and find a compromise

2. her boyfriend can start paying rent too

3. buy a foot locker to keep your personal belongings in

4. or find a different roomate but interview before you have them move in

Answer 3

You need to have an open conversation with her. And only her, neither her mom nor her boyfriend should be present. Find a set of rules that you both can agree upon. Then write them down and post them up.

And if you can't agree, then find a new room mate. And so what if her mom doesn't like you. I have no idea why that is even on your list.

Answer 4

pray to jesus he'll give you every answer

Answer 5

You live with a disgusting pig and I feel bad for you. You need a new roomate (preferrably one without mother)lol..only kidding. Does she know you cant put pads in the toilet? She is gross!!! I think your rat is cleaner than she is! Throw them all out except your rat!

Answer 6

yep try to find a new roomate, come on i know u guys r sharing the room, but having her boyfriend around all the time might be annoying, plus he shouldn;t been doing weed in ur room if u r not okay with that, at least they could have asked u if u were alright with that, easy like start looking for a new place or a new roommate

Answer 7

Start looking for a new place to live.  In the meantime, tell the landlord about her boyfriend.  Do you have your own bedroom?  Put ALL your stuff in there and get a lock for the bedroom door.  You can talk to her about the bathroom issue, but after getting her boyfriend kicked out, she's probably going to continue to be a pig.  Just don't sit on the toilet seat unless you have to p**p.  When you have to do that, put on a rubber glove and wipe the seat down with Lysol.  Do not empty out the trash.  Make her do it.

Get ready to find a temporary or permanent home for that rat.  She will probably tell the landlord about the rat.  Maybe you can let a family member or friend babysit the rat for a month or two and then sneak it back into your bedroom when she isn't home.

Answer 8

i would det a new roommate

or just talk about it with her and work things out

Answer 9

Well if you sit there and nothing she's just gonna keep doing it talk to her .  Stand up to her mom and let her know what's up .  Her mom hates you because you have a rat so what that's her problem not yours. And tell her bf to put shirt on.