How do i deal with a friends read the details?

Question

this girl keeps calling me and asking me to hang out but i don't want to so i keep making up excuses to get me out of going =[but i do like her and want to be friends with her but like in school but not in a spend the night type of way.

Answer 1

Then be friends with her in school,thats fine.

When you conversate with her in school, mention things you do after school you can even make some things up if ya like...

for example...

you: So Kelly what do u do after school?

         -kelly explains-

you: Wow thats sounds lame or cool whatever, yeah i have to babysit my lil brother cousin sister neice whatever...from the minute i get out of school til 9 or something crazy like that. and be like plus i have to do dishes,laundry,sweep,mop,and clean my room. or walk the dog. or go to the movies with your cousin or you guys have company over and nobodys allowed over...or you can always tell her your grounded...and nobody can come over..and you cant go anywhere.

Answer 2

well.. you have to put yourself in her shoes. maybe she doesnt have any friends and she really likes u. soooo.

give her a chance. and if it REALLY sucks then just find a nice way to get rid of her. or just slowly stop talking to her.

i really hope this helps.. and let me kno how it works out (:  

Answer 3

so tell her you feel like if you hang out then it'll be like trying to "get to know each other" and you just want to have a simple friendship

Answer 4

I think you should give her a chance. You might really like hanging out with her.  You guys might end up being good friends!

If it doesn't end up working then just be straight up with her and tell her your limits of being friends with her.

Answer 5

so tell her maybe u can go to an ice cream shop...but afterwards u have to do hw...or something like that so u dont keep on turning her down...if its something u dont wanna do suggest another idea...like maybe bike riding or something....