How do i deal with pre-wedding jitters?!

Question

I'm getting married in 2 WEEKS. I'm so nervous! we don't much money, so its not gonna be fancy. I'm worried ppl will be like wtf. I'm so nervous!! not to mention i promised myself i would get intimate with my fiance for a month before ethe wedding and that's making it worse. and my inlaws who i never met are staying with us for a week, and my bridesmaid dropped out and cursed me out. and my babysitter canceled on me for our honeymoon.

how do i deal?!

Answer 1

Valium

Xanax

another benzodiazepine of your choice

Answer 2

First step would be to calm down.  Everything will be alright.  It isn't the location that makes a wedding something, its the emotion of the ceremony that people will remember.  I had my wedding at a community center and it was very small.  People still cried when we were announced.  As to the rest, maybe stop the intimacy until after the wedding when you aren't so stressed.  Get a new bridesmaid and forget the other one, she apparently isn't worth the time.  And find a new babysitter.  Set yourself some goals and priorities to get stuff done and you will be ok.

Answer 3

first breathe!!! Remember that this is about you and your fiancé.  Really it's about you, LOL!  

I had jitters to andwe even had a huge fight like days before(I stayed at my parents for aweek before even thoughwe were living together for years).  We have been together for 10 years.

Answer 4

Remember it's all about you and your fiance,  You and your fiance will soon be a family.  I'm happy for you.  I wish you a happy wedding.

Answer 5

Getting "intimate" before a wedding is simply a matter of personal preference and has no real effect on you decision to marry. You obvioulsy said YES when asked. Time to take a step back and ask yourself WHY you made this decision. In business, this is called cost-benefit analysis. Time to go back in time and analyze WHY you said yes. Calm down. You have not made a decision you can not take back upon further analysis if it turns out you made the wrong choice. What you are doing is what a whole LOT of people do, second-guess their choice. Second-guessing simply means you maybe were not as sure of your choice as you thought you were at the time. Perfectly natural and many people do the exact same thing. The rational cost-benefit decision made in business is what people do every day, though not in a conscious manner. Many people have a "gut feeling" as to what they should do when faced with a decision, but that does NOT mean they did not do the analysis, just that they did not have the analysis in the front of their mind and that gut feeling was the result of thinking about it all unconsciously, or simply, emotionally. Time to take the time and make the effort to make a conscious decision, analyze things more completely in the front of your mind instead of letting your subconscious do your thinking for you. You need to know exactly WHY you are making the decision. The bigger the decision you have to make in your life, the more likely you will second-guess yourself, the more important it becomes to do the analysis in a conscious manner as to what is the best for you to do.

Answer 6

smoke a bag of meth