How do i deal with stress and problems?

Question

I had s*x with boys in the past thinking it was cool but now its falling back on me they talking about me but now i just want to change but they just bring be down . i dnt got enough faith to go on.Another thing is that i have females that dislike so thats another thing thats bringing me down and then family problems and then my so called friends its just too much stress on me sometimes i just wanna be on another planet with no problems and it seems like every boy i talk to they want s*x and if u say no they wanna get mad and stop talkin to u. I am 19 dealing with intense stress i just need someone who would listen

Answer 1

talk to your doctor, they can help out a lot

Answer 2

If stress is affecting your life in any way, you might want to consider the factors that can cause it. When you are faced with a lot of stress, your ability to cope diminishes, and there is a possibility of an emotional or physical disruption to your life.  Read more here on how to manage yr stress:

http://selfempoweredwoman.com/40/stress-...

Answer 3

Jamika -- you are obviously a wonderful person going through hard times.  Going on will bring you to better times, but it's so hard to offer great advice without knowing your exact situation.  

If you are nineteen, I assume you are working.  If not, you need to find a job and start saving to get away from where you are and find something better.  Sometimes the best remedy for this type of pain is starting over.  It could take a year or two, but in the meantime, take up a hobby or volunteer your time to fill up the spare hours when you feel bored, lonely or sad.  Sometimes the best remedy for our own difficulties is helping others...this is proven in studies of mental health.

If you are feeling suicidal, I am including links to talk to someone.  Even if you are severely depressed, the link might help, so don't be afraid to pick up the phone.

I am thinking of you; take care.  

Answer 4

We've all been down that road. Those "boys" will tell u anyting to get u to have s*x with them.  One of these days u will fall in love with the right guy and  he won't pressure u for s*x. He will love u for who and what u are. Respect yourself and those guys will respect u. I know this a hard time for u young people and I admire all of u. Times might have changed but basically,I believe guys still want to be the ones to do the chasing.Hold your head up and stand your ground. Men like to see strength in a lady! As far as ur friends go, get new ones.,you'll be happier. Listen, don't be to hard on yourself. You are young, get a good education, laugh alot .write me back and we'll gossip again.lol lol