How do i defend myself at school?

Question

well im usually getting picked on i guess, because im different in my school(my race)..anyways, if a person makes a comment at me, any kind of comment,should i fire back, or should i just ignore?

also, if a person slaps me, or whatever..should i hit back? i mean i would LOVE to hit back, the fact that the anger gets to me...but because i live in tha hood, im afraid of getting jumped.

i also would never tell a teacher cause im not a snitch and that would probably make things worse.

what should i do?

Answer 1

  Try to defend yourself! You should stand up for yourself fire back! Don't start fights though!!!!Maybe you could ask your mom, teacher,or any one you trust to give you good advice,but don't let them put you down because no matter what even if your the most beautiful woman in the world girls can always find something to make fun of you about. When I was younger I was really skinny ,but not sick. I did a lot of sports so they kept me pretty slim and I didn't care much for junk food. A girl made fun of me for that! I got really upset and when I finally stood up to her she left me alone. The reason she made fun of me was because she was nervous about her appearance.2 years later we became best friends!

Answer 2

If you're confident i mean really confident. beat the living c**p out of the biggest a hole who is messing with you. I mean actually beat the dude until you feel bad about what you're doing than keep on beating and kicking and stomping the guy.  While you're doing just keep screaming crazy ssh it about how you hate people and you'll eat his insides and other weird stuff. than just walk away.

Answer 3

well, dont fight back. fighting just makes everything even worse! i would tell a teacher. someone will get over it. im sorry but i would do that if i where u. if u just dont wanna do that, dont ignore it, tell ur parents about wats happening. they will tell u wats best for u. so thats wat i suggest.

Answer 4

In a school situation, its best just to ignor them as best as you can for name calling at least. But, if they resort to physical violence you should try to get away to where a responsible adult is as fast as you can like in the door way to a classroom where they can see you. Then who ever hit you wont try again for fear of getting caught and you didn't have to snitch. I know this might not work all the time but if you dont want to tell an adult you don't have many other options. I hope I helped

Answer 5

make a mean comment back Like say i dont givee a ***?

& yeah you should or people are gonna think you are a loser

& weak

Answer 6

get everyone that is being picked on and try to give him a taste of his/her own medicine

Answer 7

wtf you get slapped?

if you do definitely dont take it, if your tough fight back, if not i dont even know that would p**s me off

Answer 8

YOU KNOW THE ANSWER,..... IF YOU CAME HERE TO GET PERMISSION TO DO THE WRONG THING YOU WONT GET IT FROM ME. THERE IS A BIG DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A SNITCH AND SOMEONE USING THE SYSTEM TO BETTER THEIR LIFE. TREAT PEOPLE THE WAY YOU WANT TO BE TREATED IS A GOOD START. AND WHEN THERE IS TROUBLE, BE SMART ENOUGH TO RECOGNIZE IT BEFORE IT GETS BAD AND USE THOSE IN POWER AROUND YOU AND IN YOUR LIFE TO HELP SET THINGS RIGHT. START HONING YOUR SKILLS NOW, WHEN YOU ARE AN ADULT OTHERS WILL BE COMING TO YOU FOR HELP.....AND I KNOW YOU WOULD WANT TO HELP...

Answer 9

i would fight back  

Answer 10

is there any way you can change schools?  this is a bad situation to be in.  it is never okay to get picked on for any reason, but if it is because of your race, that is discriminatory and against the law.  i know you don't want to be a snitch or get jumped, but you have to do something or someone has to do something.  how about a guidance counselor?  i know that when kids tell their parents, the parents call the school or go to the school and make things worse, so i am guessing you have not told your parents.  do you have any friends at all at the school that can maybe defend you or convince the bullies to stop?  these are very important years in your life and going to another school would probably be your best bet, but if you cannot move, you have to talk to someone who can intercede on your behalf.  please dont hate the race of kids that are bullying you.  other races bully too and they are just don't have dicipline at home.  no matter what happens, stay true to yourself, who you are, what you are, what you want out of life.  keep your dreams, reach your goals and the very best of luck to you.  this will not be forever and you can get them back by being successful.  if all else fails, act crazy and start pretending you know some kind of voodoo or something.  this worked for me once when a kid in my building was destroying my property on purpose.  i told him he'd better stop because where i came from we did voodoo and the people who care about me were mad and i couldnt be held responsible if something really terrible happened to him.  he never, ever disrespected me or my stuff again.  he was so polite after that.  don't know if that will work for you, but no matter what, good luck.