How do i do it without her?

Question

i have just split up with the love of my life and we have a 4 month old son together, i have to stay strong for my son but inside i am dying... how do i deal with the pain

Answer 1

omg hun... i am so sorry...

be with your family and friends they will give you the advise you need and comfort, they will help you... cause they know you best

that is all i can say

Answer 2

WELL, YOU ARE JUST BEING NORMAL SINCE YOU JUST BROKE WITH YOUR BF.  THE PAIN NATURALLY IS STILL FRESH BUT TIME HEALS ALL WOUND. IT MAY LEAVE A SCAR BUT YOU WILL NEVER REMEMBER THE PAIN IT INFLICTED ON YOU. JUST USE UP ALL YOUR ENERGY AND EFFORT ON HOW TO BE SUCCESSFUL AND HOW TO REAR UP YOUR SON. I KNOW IT IS EASIER SAID BUT BELIEVE ME I'VE BEEN THERE BEFORE. IT IS JUST A MATTER OF HOW YOU WILL TAKE IT. GOODLUCK AND GOD BLESS.

Answer 3

Just cry it out.This will help.

Answer 4

It is a very hard time to go through, but you can do it.  Try to keep busy as best you can.  Walk, sleep, read, volunteer, play with child, etc.  Each day it will get better.  Try to put your focus on other things--your son, or projects that will benefit other people.  If it is indeed "final" make sure that you don't prolong the agony by talking on the phone to her or by going to places where she might be.  Best wishes, and just stick to it.  Someday someone else will come along, really.