How do i dump a guy that i've been going out with for like 10 min. or 2 days ?

Question

so this guy ask me out and i said i'll think about so when i leave 10 min later he comes up to me and he said so what. i say ok and then he is like yes. i find him very annoying. hes like a nerd and he is killing my rep! I'm not popular but I'm close! this is becoming very annoying. the next day he gives me 1 rose. then the day after that 2 more and they kept on coming. now i have like a thousand roses and I'm afraid that if i though them away that he will know and I'm a very caring person. i don't know if i should tell him i don't want to go out with him or just like you know i guess ask a friend to break up with him. CONFUSING! what should i do!?!

Answer 1

Girl it best that you come out and tell him the truth that u don't want to be with him.... it better to be upfront about how u feel about him instead of sending a friend it will come out of you instead of putting some one to do it  

Answer 2

I can tell you're young.

Specially if you're thinking about having a friend dump him for you.

Honestly, I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years. And he's occasionally got me roses.

If your man is willing to get you a rose a day, that's truly rare to find.

And if you're that worried about having him effect your reputation.

Wow.

I don't think you could get more immature.

Go by what you think of him.

If YOU think he's annoying. Break up with him.

If THEY think he's annoying, but YOU don't.

Follow your heart. :]

Answer 3

Just tell him, "I'm just not ready for a relationship. This is going way too fast for me, and I am sorry that in any way or form that I might of used you or something. Understand that doing this to you hurts me as much as it is hurting you right now, but we should move on and find someone else."

Don't pull the whole "just friends" card. It's really hurtful. :/

Answer 4

I'm sorry, Jack. This isn't working for me and I'm pretty certain that it will never work. I heard a guy one say that the leading cause of divorce is that the wrong people got married in the first place.

We're just not compatible. That's firm and final.

Give the roses to a nursing home.

Answer 5

not that caring if all you are worried about is him killing your rep.  sorry, but true.  you don't like him, probably never will.  tell him.  leave your friends out of it, you end it, and end it soon.  at least the roses will stop.

Answer 6

dont ask a friend to break up with him that will embarrass him.  You shouldnt go out with someone if they dont make you happy.  Just say "you know, i thought i was ready for a relationship right now but Im really not.  Youre really nice but this just isn't going to work."  Do your best not to hurt his feelings be nice about it.