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How do i earn trust my parents trust back?

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okay, i told my parents i was going to my friends house then we were going out the baseball fields that are near her house, they were okay with it. then the group i was with wanted to go to casamento to drink and what not. i didnt call my mom cause i knew she wouldnt let me go there, and i wanted to, so at one point in the night, she called me up asking where i was, i lied and told her the baseball fields, and she was there and said i wasnt so she demanded to know where i was, and i told her i went to casamento, and now she wont let me out for a week for lieing and she doesnt trust me anymore, what do i do?

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  1. Only time will help earn their trust back. And you being more responsible. Honesty will bring you trust with them. Act more like an adult and they will treat you more like an adult.


  2. Time is of the greatest moment here. You betrayed your mother's trust and so it will take her a while to earn your trust back, but the most important thing that should do is apologize to your mother and promise (this is a truly unbreakable one) that you will never do it again. Also let her know that you know you betrayed her trust and that you understand that it's going to be a while before she can fully trust you again, but tell her that she need not worry because you're never going to pull anything like that again. Just remember that when you make that kind of problem there's no way you can break it without putting a hole in your mother's heart. But considering you are her child she's never going to stop loving you even when you take advantage of her trust in you.

  3. Take your lumps and learn from this experience.  You can rebuild her trust in you but it will take time.  Be extra vigilant about letting her know what is going on in your life and avoid lying to her at all costs.  Your Mother loves you and is doing her job to teach you values.  Give her credit for being there for you and doing a tough job.  Trust me when I say that when a child is "grounded" it's just as hard on the parent as it is on the child.  Good luck.



  4. My mom gets SUPER SUPER mad when I lie to her too. I don't mean to, but its just a teenager thing. Its she grounded you for a week, but I'm pretty sure you didn't lose her trust to the max. She needs to cool down, but just apologize to her. Sometimes, it won't work, but she should know your sincerely sorry. You probably feel guilty, but let her calm down and it'll eventually blow over.

    :D When my parents are mad at me, I tend to mope around the house. So they know I feel bad about the situation. Just don't lie next time, and if you do- don't get caught :( !  

  5. Wow what a bad situation! You just have to live with your mistake and wait until she lets you back out of the house! Once she does, she's still not going to trust you enough yet, so you have to show her you can be trusted again! You can start by asking her if she needs any help around the house, and do the laundry to surprise her when she gets home! You will be surprised how much of a difference you will see in the way she talks to you ect. And try not to ask to go many places with friends! After a while, she will let loose and forget about your previous actions! Just make sure to be VERY open with your mom about where you are going or she will get suspicious about where you are a lot, even if your not doing anything bad!

    And be sure to sincerely apologize to her, even if it doesn't work, at least she still knows you tried!!

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    good luck!!

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