How do i fill the void in my heart after my fathers death?

Question

he died a long time ago. i tried filling the void with weed and music but it doesnt fill it completly

Answer 1

Jesus Christ!  

Answer 2

every night do this visulization imagine your dad standing at the foot of your bed holding a basket imagine all your daily dramas thoughts good things and bad going in allow your dads spirit to take these issues away for you as..your dads spirit lives on forever in your heart and whenever you want to talk to him know h**l always be there through your heart..alcohol and weed only block things out leaving you to deal with built up issues l8tr in life.......

Answer 3

By praying and evocating

Answer 4

I"m sorry about your dad. My dad past away 5 years ago this october and every year it seems to get worse. I don't think there is completely a way to fill the void because nobody can replace him no matter how long it has been. 2 months ago me and my husband got married and my uncle gave me away and that about broke my heart. I can suggest is talking to a counselor it helped me a little bit a couple of years ago.  

Answer 5

I'm sorry about your Dad but you really need to get a grip on yourself and move on. I may sound harsh, but everyone in this world dies, and life is far too short to sit around crying over death, even if its the death of a loved one. take solace in friends and family. go travelling. just get out of the house as much as you can and ENJOY YOURSELF. learn to laugh again, it really is good medicine. take each day as it comes, take one step at a time, gradually time will heal, i promise.  

Answer 6

and it never will :(

accept that space in you, its where the good memories are kept too. Live each day in a way that you know would make him proud, and never forget him, or the values he gave you  

Answer 7

OMG...I lost my dad about almost 2 years ago.. And I cant seem to fill the empty part of my heart either! Its so sad.. I honestly think that there is nothing in this WORLD that can fill that certain part. My dad to me was the ONE MAN that mattered most to me.. Besides my FIANCE but that didn't matter too when he was taken from us. Gosh just talking about it makes me SAD. But there is nothing. And doing drugs is never going to HELP you. What you need to do is think of the POSITIVE and think of what your dad would have wanted for you! Dont ruin yourself. that is not how he wants to see you!! Please take care.. Cause it will take time. And with all that time you will NEVER forget him but think of him in GOODWAYS that will make you smile! Be good to yourself..  

Answer 8

my dad has hated me forever for no reason.He bends over backwards for my other siblings. I'm 48 years old. I call him to say hello for the 1st time in years and he says,"hold on, i'll get your mother". I just wanted to talk to him. He has never given me anything in his life where as I shower him with gifts and money every birthday,fathers day etc.

  Just be grateful that you and your dad had a great relationship before his death. Think of the good times and smile.