How do i find my perfect boyfriend?

Question

im 15 and never had a boyfriend =\ its so annoying because i like some guys and they turn out not to notice me, like me or they have a girlfriend =\ i dont know how to talk to guys! i want a boyfriend because i feel im really ready for one now! i just dont know how to find onee?

Answer 1

Listen your 15, so this is all pretty new to you. Let me give some advice. When you are looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend, you'll NEVER find one. I can't explain why, its just one of those things.

You have to let things happen naturally, or you'll end up going out with a loser just to have one. You have to take your time and you will out of the blue find one.

There isn't anything wrong with having guys as your friend first. When you are talking to a guy, relax, don't talk fast, or loud. Just take your time and think about what you want to say before you actually say it or you'll sound like your babbling and guys don't like that- Just pretend that your just talking to a friend, the rest will come.

Another thing is that you need to build up your self esteem. If you are confident then other people will see that. You try to hard and you'll seem desperate.

Good luck, and remember when your looking you won't find, when your stop looking you'll be amazed at what you find!! :o)

Answer 2

Nobody have the answer to your question. If there's a definite answer like there won't be lonely souls in this world anymore 'cause everyone could easily find their perfect soulmate.

There's no such thing as perfect boyfriend, if there is he prolly is extinct.

It's a matter of compromise and chemistry and love (and many other things) that you find your other half PERFECT, that is how you feel. If another girl were to date your other half she might not think he's as perfect as you think!

Answer 3

The best love comes when you're looking elsewhere. Never expect anything, tell yourself nothing will happen but if it does, let it happen. Preoccupy yourself with your schoolwork and focus on other things.

By doing that you have kind of a guard up, which will stop you from getting into bad situations and will help you to not get hurt by random boys.

Everything happens at the right time and for a good reason, trust me. I had the best relationship of my life when I wasn't expecting anything from her. Then all of a sudden it just happened and there I was, the happiest I ever was!

Just simply give it time, patience and distract yourself from it. Don't give in to peer pressure and don't feel as though your missing out because with love comes hurt, and the people in relationships will end up hurting one day and I know it's a horrible thought but I'm only being a realist for you!

I hope you find the right person! xxxxx

Answer 4

dont go looking for love, love will find you  

Answer 5

the answer to finding a perfect boyfriend is to stop looking. When you are looking for someone you will never find them but when you are happy to be single someone will pop up. If your looking to hard then you will miss the signs.

In regards to finding the perfect boyfriend its often not a case of the first boyfriend you have. Many relationships are a good way of learning about the kind of people you do and dont like so dont just settle for the first gyu you meet. I know it seems hard but your only 15 the perfect guy is out there you just have to give him time. Good things are worth waiting for

Answer 6

There no shut-thing as a perfect boyfriend/ perfect girlfriend you have to get 2 know that person before you fall n love with person....

Answer 7

Meet more guys that do not go to your school.

Get a book on how to train animals and use it on the bois.

Talking is not how you get to bois. Bois are visual and action oriented. If you want to talk get a g/f.

Answer 8

You really need to just be yourself. I'm 21 and what I've realised is that when ur pining after every guy that u see or u so badly want a boyfriend u don't get anywhere but when I'm relaxed, carefree and just being me that's when I attract lots of guys. So just be happy with yourself and guys will begin to notice u.

You could join clubs that you're interested in and will meet like minded guys.

Answer 9

Honey a wise women once told me that "you never find what you go looking for". This said, I can tell you it is so true. I spent three years looking for a boyfriend. did not work at all. I to was 15 at the time. Do you know the minute I started hanging out and just having fun, is when I found my soul mate. Don't give up hope, just take your time. Guys that age don't have a clue about what they want anyway. It will happen when the time is right. Good Luck

Answer 10

when you find an answer on how to find the perfect bf let me know....lol

Answer 11

Looking for a boyfriend is kinda like this situation:

You go into a river FILLED with fish and start thrashing around trying to catch one, so they all swim away as fast as they can and hide. If you manage to catch one, it's a lazy fish that couldn't get away and is therefore useless. If however, you stand calmly in the middle of the water and let the little fishes swim into your net, the ones that are worth it will come in.

The problem with many girls your age looking for a boyfriend is that they rush things too much because they are, as you say "ready" for a boyfriend. What you need to do in order to find a perfect boyfriend is not look for one, but have a male friend. Talk to him, get to know him. His strengths and weakness, what makes him who he is. Let him do the same with you. Eventually, you'll grow really close and be great friends. Sparks are bound to fly and if they do, and you end up bf/gf, you'll know each other a lot more and the relationship is bound to be more successful.

Don't mean to sound partronising, but you're 15, so there's plenty of time for you to find "the one." Just don't rush anything, there's a lot more to understand.