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How do i find out if my 10 yr.old daughter is sleeping and having s*x with her step-dad?? I found them in bed

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i think they have been having s*x for 6 months.

i have even found her BARBIE panties full of dried s***n.

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  1. I hope your a troll. This is your only question thus far. If it is true go to the police immediately!!!


  2. If this is a legitimate question than you need to get yourself and your daughter away from your husband immediately.  This is NOT sleeping together and having s*x, this is sexual abuse on your husband's part and you must step in and protect your daughter from this.  Take your daughter and go to the hospital now.  Tell them what you know and they will do a rape kit and contact the authorities.  Your daughter needs your love and support plus she will need counseling.  This is a terrible thing for any child to have to endure.  Do NOT watch and see if it happens again, this must stop now.

  3. WHAT THE h**l KIND OF MOTHER ARE YOU???  You've suspected this of going on for 6months and haven't turned him in yet?  You are a monster and deserve to be beat!!  Stupid b-tch!!

  4. I COMPLETLY agree w/ HollyG's answer. I'm married to a police officer. WHAT THE h**l KIND OF MOTHER ARE YOU? I f you honestly think this is a possibility, how in the h**l could you allow your daughter to stay one more night in that house with this man?

    Or you for that matter!!!

    HOW CAN YOU NOT BE READY TO TURN THAT S.O.B. OVER TO THE POLICE???

    I KNOW your can't be thinking this is you daughter's fault or that she wanted or consented to this.

    In case your not "law" saavy,THIS IS STATUTORY RAPE!!!

    You have better hope and pray you can make peace w/ your maker, and beg your daughter for forgiveness, because she's gonna grow up hating you.

    GOD KNOWS I WOULD if I had a sorry excuse like you for a mother.

    HOW DARE YOU???

    It's just a shame they can't charge you w/ STUPIDITY!

  5. call the police...NOW....

    i cant believe u havent.....yet

    wat kind of parent are you???????

  6. If this is a serious question you need to get your daughter to the ER right now and bring barbie along as well. They can do a rape test on her and gather fluid samples.

    If you even remotely suspect this is happening it is YOUR job as a parent to remove your child from that situation. This should have happened 6 months ago. She could be taken away from YOU for not protecting her and letting it repeatedly happen. Get her help now.

  7. OMG YOU NEED TO CONFRONT HIM FIRST... SERIOUSLY THIS IS YOUR 10 YR OLD DAUGHTER..

    I TOTALLY AGREE WITH EVERYONE.. HOW COULD YOU SIT AND WRITE THIS ON THE FORUM...

    IN MY OPINION INSTEAD OF WAISTING YOUR TIME HERE YOU NEED TO BE WITH YOUR DAUGHTER..

    IT PARENTS LIKE YOU THAT WE SEE ON TV AND ARE LIKE WTF ...

  8. Take your daughter to the local hospital to have something called a "rape kit" done on her. A nurse will do it. It involves taking samples, hairs, swabs, etc. The purpose is to collect evidence. Take the underwear as well, and do not wash them. Take other samples of her clothes as well, in addition to the clothes and underwear, take the sheets as well.

    I don't know what state you are in, but in most states there is something called "mandated reporting." That basically means that because your daughter is a minor and you suspect that she is being assaulted, it is your legal duty to report it to your local police. That means the police in the city/town where the crime took place. If you need support in doing this, call your local sexual assault crisis center or bring a friend with you. The police will take it from there. They will probably suggest that you take your daughter to the hospital if you haven't already.

    Now about your husband. He will deny that he has been raping your daugher for the past six months. That does not matter. You are her mother and her advocate FIRST. You are there to protect her and keep her safe. And that means getting him out of the home. If he owns the home, get yourselves to some place safe, get a restraining order, and start anew. Again, your local crisis center should be able to help you with this.

    RAINN, the rape, abuse, and incest national network is a national hotline that can direct you to your nearest crisis center. They are free and confidential. All you have do to is call.

    1-800-656-HOPE

    Help is out there. Stay strong.

  9. first of all talk to your daughter and ask her lots of questions. then call the police and most importantly don't leave her alone with him at all, maybe go stay with a relative for a few days until everything is settled, but you definitely need to take action immediately.

  10. ~WHAT!?!

    Why would you think they are having s*x and for the last 6 months?

    If you know that much....CALL THE POLICE!!!

  11. Take your daughter to a safe place (Grandma's or a friend's house) and confront the step dad. This is a huge issue. If he doesn't admit to it, talk to your daughter and tell her it's okay if she tells you and that you'll keep her safe. If she tells you yes, keep her away from him and call the cops.

    Don't let that man scar your daughter for life.

  12. Um....this is a really serious topic your discussing in this forum...if your lying I'd suggest you take this question off immediately! I have a hunch that this is made up...no one is this stupid!

    How do you know it's been going on for 6 months? If that is true and your continuing to allow this person into your home and around your children you should be charged as well with endangering a child...!

  13. omg!! call the cops!

  14. Get ur kids and leave the home, how could you continue living with this person if you think he's been doing something like this to ur 10 year old daughter?? Are you sick or something??

  15. go to your daughter and ask her if any one is touching her tell her you can talk with her

  16. You are either really sick, or really negligent.  Either way, the police should be called on either you for false alarm, or on him if this is true, which I doubt.  Troll!

  17. u need to contact the police right now

  18. FIRST TALK TO YOUR DAUGHTER.... and ask her very nicely if her step-dad has touched her in places he wasnt supposed to... etc.... you know your daughter so you need to look for non-verbal answers as well.. if she gets scared or hesitates... or if she lies.. to protect him... she's a child and HE IS AN ADULT!! I would take her to a hospital ASAP and I would call the police!

  19. is this real?? if so you need to get the cops. ask your daughter first tho, you could convince her to tell you the truth but of course your husband will never admit to it. if it turns to be true then he needs to be in prison and she may need counseling. good luck. and i hope everything turns out OK

  20. First stay calm and focused. Take her to the doctor and see if she has had s*x. If yes, then find out who. Tell her she can talk to you be understanding and get it out of her, tell her you won't be mad but you are just worried about her. When you get all the info you need, call the cops...have him arrested then flip the f**k out. Remember first verify she has been having s*x, be nice and comforting to find out who, then flip out!!!! She needs counseling right away if this is the case to try to undo this and it dosen't effect her in later life emotionally.

  21. CALL THE COPS NOW!!

    IF YOU SAW THEM THEN YOU SHOULD OF DONE SOMETHING THEN! NOT WAITED 6MONTHS & POST A QUESTION!

  22. spy and find out if they are. and if they are, report it to the police cuz its illegal.
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