How do i fix this situation with my dad ?

Question

i did something really stupid and told my dad i hated him and that i didnt need him anymore and i really hurt his feeling when i told him he looked at me suprised and i think i saw a little tear i also told him that he dosnt care about me only my mom and sisters and that he dosnt work hard which he does 2 jobs every day from 6 till 8 what do i do i feel really bad

Answer 1

Just tell him that you are sorry and that you didn't mean any of those things that you said to him, and that you only said them because you were mad and looking to p**s him off as much as possible, and you knew that that would do it.  He will probably still be hurt, but he will feel a lot better if you apologize to him.

Answer 2

apologize and dont do it again.  the tongue can be a blade sometimes.  think before you speak next time.   one day you may wake up and you dad is no longer there adn you will wish that he was there for you to tell him the things you realy wanted to say.  do it now while you can..

Answer 3

Tell him that you were selfish, that you messed up and that you appreciate, respect, and understand the fight and the work that he goes through everyday. If you really want to do the right thing, ask him what you can do to help and let him know that you are in it together as a family.  

Answer 4

Hi.. i'm sorry you're having such a hard time.

You know, all of us make mistakes and say things we regret later, because we are angry about something... we are only human.

I think that, you can just approach your dad as soon as you see him and tell him you are very sorry and you feel badly... and if you are feeling a little bit neglected lately, you can also let him know that is why you felt angry and said things you did not mean at all...

I'm sure he will understand and forgive you.  And possibly help you out with the fact you're feeling lonely or neglected. hugs

Answer 5

First of all you said (it was stupid) this means to me that you said it out of emotion not truth,so you already know it was not truthful in meaning,you could send a card to your dads work (one of them) and in the card write down 5 things that your Dad has done for you and that you know that without him working the 2 jobs you might not have gotten these things,dig deep the things are not just materialistic in nature or form.Then ask your Dads boss if he would give him one day off because you want to give him a fathers day diner from you and your family because you all haven't seen him as much as you would like,i bet the boss says no,but....may be the boss sees your dad in a different light and it makes your Dad have better days at work because of you!Also be waiting for your Dad outside when he comes home from work and tell him,,,,,Dad I am sorry what i said was stupid and selfish and I am thankful that you are working because I know you are doing it for us.Then give him a hug .........good luck I bet this all would help immensely,and take care

Answer 6

we've all said things we don't mean.  just sit down with your dad and appologize but also talk about why you feel you're being left out.  

Answer 7

tell him that your really sorry

Answer 8

you really need to make it right with him life's to short to say something like that who gave you life!!!Tell him you didn't mean it and you want to make it up to him maybe make him breakfast Clean his car get him a card and write how sorry you are do it before its to late because I lost my dad and you can't take things back when it's to late!!!good luck

Answer 9

Just tell him you are sorry.  Everyone gets mad and says things they regret.  Don't be so hard on yourself.  Again, just tell him you are "Sorry."  And then be more respectful and appreciative in the future.

Answer 10

Apologize to him asap and tell him that you were just mad;  you didn't mean it.  And never do that again.  You just end up hurting yourself more than anyone if you say things like that.

Answer 11

Gosh. hes ur dad. he spent so much money for you, and did so much for you. You really should say your sorry. and get him a gift or something like that. maybe a nice watch

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Answer 12

tell him you are sorry and say nice things to him like how u appreciaate his hard work to support the family

Answer 13

I've done this to my dad before. Except i told him I hated him and I wished he had died.

Go apologize to him. Like right now. Go give him a big hug and tell him how much you love him. Tell him it was just out of anger and that you didn't mean to make him cry. And try to be nice to him.

By the way, you're probably going to get grounded for making that remark.  

Answer 14

apologize ..