How do i forget about her?

Question

There is this girl that i have been friends with for a while......she is an amazing girl who is so beautiful, but she has dated a large number of guys and some of them were my best friends..........i have also heard from one of them how she slept with him and my other friend.....she is 16 right now and she tells me all the time what parties she has been to and what she has done there.......last year i had a huge crush on her......i went to all of her softball games, hung out with her almost everyday, and we even danced together (grinded) the entire prom.........but we stopped talkin over the summer cause i was busy for my senior year........i stopped thinking about her so much and i thought i was over her.......but now that ive started to see her and talk to her again i realized i wasnt over her........part of me really wants to be with her but the otehr part know that if i do date her then she will pressure me to have s*x and go to parties with her adn i dont want to be like that.......any suggestions?

Answer 1

wow your a realy nice guy i'll take you but honestly the best way to get over someone is to date someone else not get a girlfriend but just date to get her out of your mind

Answer 2

well its so hard to get over someone it takes lots of time!

if she pressures you into that she isn't the right girl!

if you want to wait she will wait with you because you would mean the world to her! she would want it to be right! I know I would be I don't go to all those party's and stuff! if you do start going out tell you want to take the s*x thing slow if you rushes you into it!

good luck !  

Answer 3

If you truely like her go out with her and give it a try. Through out your relationship if she goes out to party or tries to have s*x say NO. If she continues to do so bring up the matter in a calm and non accusitory conversation. Give it a try, you never know maybe she will change. If she cares about you she will atleast TRY to change her behaviour. It couldnt hurt,.

Answer 4

from what you described she doesn't seem so "amazing". she seems like a girl who's "been around" if you know what i mean. lol i say if you want to be with her and she wants to be with you then go for it!

Answer 5

dude if you don't want that kind of a relationship stay away from her you will only make yourself a bad person plus trust me guys that are virgins and WANT to stay virgins are SO hot.

Answer 6

Many men have envied your position. Being pressured to have s*x isn't bad.

If you would like to forget her, I suggest keep yourself busy. Get back into reading. Into video games? Try playing a good single player campaign. Look for a new tv series to watch, HBO has some good ones. Like sports? Catch the games that are on or join a fantasy league, that will take up your time. Study. You can reassess your diet and lifestyle. You can try new foods. You can try different exercises, running activities, train for a 5k, lift a different set of weights. Think about buying a musical instrument and practicing.

The possibilities are endless dude. This is your senior year. The future is coming. If's probably going to be quite evident to you in the next couple of months that this girl isn't going to be a part of your life forever. Focus on you and improving yourself. That will help you forget about her.

Answer 7

well u shouldn't be forced to do anything in a relationship..... she sounds like the kind of girl that you would go out with just to say you went out with her to ur friends. I say just think that there's a perfect girl for u somewhere, and all u have to do is find her :)

Answer 8

Hmm...

Go out with your friends like to a party. Or just spend the day at the mall with your guy friends. Play sports with them.

Good luck. : )