How do i gain my parents trust back?

Question

I'm 15, Last night i was at a party and i got really drunk. When i came home my parents found out (obviously) and they are so disappointed in me. My dad even cried. I feel horrible, I really do. I shouldn't of drank when i'm only 15 but i did and there is no way to fix it.

is there anyway to gain their trust back?

Answer 1

r u one of those goodie tooshie boys??i think ur parents shood understand that ur 15 an ur gonna get into that stuff...im 16 an my parents are syko but they r my parents an they kno im a kid...the least they can do is tell u that ur gettin oldeer an u were gonna statr doin this **** som day....but u shoodnt force it an do it every single day.only an idiot wood do that..but yeh pretty soon its gonna be smokin soo....yeh but dont smoke too much...lol...then ud b known as a pothead..like my bffs i do too but once in a while..like 2 a month..but yeh dont strees ur parents they will get over it....its not like ur a bad kid they have to not trust now.wow.they shood still trust u if u dont do that stuff everyday.

GEWD LUK:)

Answer 2

How?   Time and showing better judgment over that time.  It's going to be awhile though..I can guarantee that.

Answer 3

don't go drinking anytime soon and just be really good and helpful and show them that you can be responsible

Answer 4

Theres really nothing that you can do in a day that would make them gain trust in you again but you ccan try by doing what theve always asked you do to and showing them that you know what you did was wrong and that your willing to try agian they will gain trust in you again if you show them that you really do feel bad and your really sorry

i hope this helps

Answer 5

No,Its your fault you shouldn't have been out there doing that

Answer 6

Get a job and be more responsible.

Answer 7

Trust is such a sensitive issue. It's easy to lose and hard to gain, which SUCKS!! I know from experience. I lost my parents trust one time, I'll never forget, and for a while it will be so hard! Get right. Right with your parents, with God. Ask forgiveness, and tell them you'll do better. And the last thing is to DO BETTER! Keep your word. If your serious about change, then change! I know its easier said than done, it takes time, but don't continue to lie to them. Get right.

Answer 8

well, the only way to gain their trust back is time and effort....

hold off on the parties for a while...



and work hard to be mommy and daddy's little helper.

don't worry, they'll still love you.

Answer 9

Um, do better in school, help them, be nice, go to Church (if you are a Christian)..:D i hope this helps!

Answer 10

...They cried? What the ****? Do you know how many kids do that? I think he's in for a big wakeup call about parenting a teenager if he cries that his daughter went to a party and got drunk.

I know im going to get ALOT of thumbs down but I think that is ridiculous. Yell at you and ground you. End of story.

Answer 11

You could start with a sincere apology to your parents.  Have notes in front of yourself, if you think that would help.  Don't expect to be going out anytime soon, and they'll be especially leerie about letting you go to parties after this.

Start helping more around the house, asking if you can do anything to help them out.  Focus on your grades when school starts again, and see if you can make honor roll or something.

When they observe that you are trying hard to earn their trust back, they might start to give it back to you.

Answer 12

yeah it will just take a while.

my parents found my brother smoking pot and it took a long time for them to trust him again. he was 16 and my parents cried too.

just don't do it again.

they will get over it.

take care!  

Answer 13

it will take time ur going to feel bad for a while there is no way out of that just try doing things that are more responsible and let ur parents no ur sorry they will trust u again but it will take time