How do i get close to her?

Question

so i currently am dating this girl, its been 9 months, but lately she is just getting on my nerves. Trying to control my life and I don't like it, i just dont have the balls to break up with her, i get so pissed off and throw my phone across the room, but still cant say look its over.

I think maybe if I fall for another girl i be happier and letting her go will be so much easier. There is this really cute girl I've been in school with since kindergarten, but we never really talked. I added her on facebook, and she is just perfect, shes everything im looking for.

Thing is, I don't know how to talk to her, we have never really talked in all these years, and its not like its easy for me to take her on a date when ive got this crazy girlfriend.

I really want to date this girl but i dont even know where to begin with her, its like ive been taken so long i forgot how to be single and talk to girls i think are cute.

she probably thinks im out of her league too but i think shes so cute.

Answer 1

Grow some ca hones, dump the witch your "dating".

It might be "easier' on you, but it also would make you a two timing ****, and a despicable human being.

Maybe it'd be better for you to be single for a while..........

Luck

Answer 2

First things first, break up with your girlfriend. It is not fair to either of them if you try to date the other girl while you are still in a relationship. Once you do that, then you can maybe think about moving on to someone else...Until then, be respectful and let your current girlfriend go the right way.

Answer 3

If you've been with her for that long it shouldn't be hard for you to talk to her. So just go & talk to her & break up with her.

Answer 4

First off, stop thinking a head you need to sit your girlfriend down as hard as it is explain to her that its just not working for you anymore and that you don't feel the same as you did. Make sure you do this infront of her house so you can walk away or drive away etc. Tell her to refrain from getting emotional and contacting you because your decision was made and you would rather loose contact with her to make it easier for the both of you. Than try and talk to the other girl start on face book perhaps comment a picture of hers in a flirty way, tell her how cute she looks in a picture see how she responds and if she acts all weird towards you in school then forget it lol its worth a shot tho good luck!

Answer 5

you gotta boss up and break up with your girlfriend man. i know it seems inceredibly difficult to do, i've been in the same situation before. but seriously, be the man and break up with her. if she doesn't make you happy, then she is not worth staying with. remember, you're the one with the p***s. you're the one with the balls. YOU'RE THE MAN! i mean, don't be an a*****e about it. just be honest with her and end it. this way you'll have a fresh start in your love life and you can talk to this girl of your dreams. it will be worth it my friend. trust me. now go!

oh, and don't make ANY moves on this other girl until you have broken up with your current girlfriend or else YOU will turn out to be the bad guy. and you and i both know that's the last thing you want to happen. now...go