How do i get friend and get popular??desprate!!?

Question

i dont have much friends and im really lonely

(im ginger:-( .)

Answer 1

ummm... make friends at school? lol just be friendly :D

Answer 2

Okay i worked my way up! well tell the big mouth of your school that you like one of the popular girls (guy in my situation)  and then when he tells everyone everyone will know you! it worked Perfect 4 me!  

Answer 3

well be friendly with others... and dont do things out of the ordinary!!!

good luck!!

Answer 4

Dont be desprate at all. Why would u want to do that for? Be yourself and if they dont like you than they dont like u, it will be their lost.

Answer 5

be patient and yourself.. not to smother your new friends,

Answer 6

desperate to be POPULAR? seriously? why don't you stay at your certain "status" and just make some good, real friends. guarantee there's a few other people feeling the same way you do! get out there, for the new school year, and just talk to some new people. but trust me, being popular shouldn't be what you are striving for

revision: and to "hollister" or whoever that girl is... don't you think that's being fake? be real... and you won't have to pretend. the best friends you can find will accept you as-is!

Answer 7

We were talking about this last weekend and we discovered that the "popular" people in school seemed to be the ones who decided not to play with everybody.  That kind of limited the number of friends they could have.  While everyone else was just being themselves and open to being a friend to anyone that they found something in common with, those "popular" folks were stuck in their tiny groups.  Later in life, you look back and see just how many friends you have, you'll be amazed.  Anyhow, best way to get a friend is to say something nice to someone like "hello".  Everyone is looking to just be recognized and included.  You will get "popular" real fast if you are friendly and open to everyone that comes along.  Good luck

Answer 8

heeeey now

what does bein a ginger have to do with anything?

it doesnt!

im a ginger and d**n proud of it

just be proud of what you are...

dont be shy... make a stance

Answer 9

Your acting very desperate, this is not an attractive quality. "I don't have much friends" indicating you have some friends at the moment. My advice is to keep these friends, the point of school is to get an education, it's not a socialising event/competition. Popularity is not all it's hyped up to be.

Stick with the friends you got and if you want to make more, start by talking to the people around you with general discussions of stuff that is around you and hopefully you may develop a friendship. Be nice to everyone and don't worry about these things. Concentrate on your studies.

Hope this helps, good luck.

Answer 10

Be yourself, that is the only way.

I would rather have fewer friends and be myself around them rather than have loads of friends and be someone I'm not.

Maybe you could join a club or something, do you have any hobbies?  You could join something to do with a hobby then you would meet people you have things in common with.